How do I get my Ex-bf back..the love of my life?

Question

I broke his heart..twice..We agreed to date eachother and other people and then he got a gf..they broke up..we had the same agreement and then he just stopped talking to me. I haven't dated any other guys since and all I can think about is him. I wrote him a letter telling him everything I felt cuz he wouldn't talk to me. I don't know what to do. It took time apart for me to realize that I love him and I want to be with him. How do I get him to believe what I say? How do I get him to talk to me? It's killing me.. he says he's dating all these other girls and that kills me! I know he would feel the same if it was the other way around. His parents and friends aren't helping the situation and he said that it wouldn't work out between us because of them. How do I get him to but aside all other things (parents..friends..etc..) and do what he wants..?

Answer 1

You can't.....

One of the worst things that you could do to a guy is Break His Heart......You did it twice!!

You need to move on and let him be and you need to learn not to break guys heart!!

Answer 2

Well, I have a theory that even when you KNOW someone may not like you back, you should at least try, and then you don't have regrets about what could have been and you know it isn't your fault that things didn't work out. It's just a part of life to love and lose someone, to hurt someone, and to have them hurt you too. He's in his own mode and I think you should just let him breathe and act like the situation isn't hurting. The best thing is to let him see you laugh and having fun whenever possible because at least that way, when his feelings aren't returned again, you can salvage some pride. PLUS, no one wants to be with someone who isn't having fun and has a down mood everytime they see them. OF COURSE I think it's better to not give up, but I'd also be prepared to accept the fact that the last two times you broke his heart may have put the icing on the cake. I'd go out and date others so he knows that you're trying to move on, may inspire a jealous spot, and he may come back to you. If he doesn't, then you're already on your way to moving on. You may not think anyone else would give you that spark that he does, but eventually, someone will. And how much do you care about him anyways to have broke his heart in the first place???

Answer 3

If he is gloating about all of these girls then it is most likely to see if you are still interested. Don't rely on a letter. Find him and explain exactly what you feel towards him. Give him every detail. Trust me when I say that parents and friends will hardly affect his decision. If he wants you he will come back to you. Remember you have a better chance than any other girl, you did something right to get him the first time. You can get him back. I have been a marriage counselor for many years and can promise you that most people never completely overcome their past relationships. Please contact me at [e-mail] for any more help. I hope this helps you, and Good Luck.

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Have a time set aside to talk about it. Make all the things clear to both of you. If you realy want to be with him make amends and some agreements with him and also solutions to your problems, if there's any, then find ways you can keep your relationship for a long term or even until you marry.

Answer 6

If I were you I would never have agreed to date other people, no relationship no matter how strong can last if you share the one you love with another. If I were you I would take a very good look at your relationship, if he was the one that wanted to date other people then he does not love you enough to stay with you, getting him back under these circumstances will only lead to futher heart ache, if you were the one who decided to dat other people then you have to change. If you want to have love from someone you can not agree to date other people, you have to be true to each other.
to answer your question bluntly, go to your Ex-bfnd and tell him how you truly feel, tell him that when you saw him with another you realised that you truly loved him and you want to be only with him for the rest of your life, take your hand and place it very gently on his cheak, tell him you love him but it is his decission to make, then take away your hand from his face, touch your face with your hand with one or two fingers on the side of your lips. Then tell him that you are going to give him the time to make his decission, and give him time to make his decission, do not bother him at all. If you see him just smile look right into his eyes and look off and slightly down. what ever you do do not confront him, if he loves you at all he will come back to you. If he does not come back to you then he does not love you.
if he does not love you then understand that what has happened is because you did not take love seriously, If you want true love then you cannot date men who want to date other women at the same time. it will never work.
please understand that there are very many men who will love you for who you are, there are many women on this plannet and they all have slightly diferent taste, the same is with men. If you want a man to love you then do not flirt with other men when you are dating.
trust me when I say that there are going to be many chances for you to have love in this life. the thought that there is only one is not correct. You are much stronger than you think. please do not hold this pain in your heart, you have to let it go, if your heart is full of hate and pain it is harder for for you to recieve love.

Answer 7

Give up and move on. He had the arrangement he wanted. He got to do whatever he wanted with whoever he wanted. Not especially into you but will to sleep with you as long as you didn't get too attached. Well now you are attached and he is keeping his distance. Wake up. He doesn't want you.

Don't waste any more time or feelings than you have to and find somebody to be with that wants to be with you.

Answer 8

I know it diffucult, but maybe you should forget about him as it seems he has moved on. And if that isn't the case then you should try dating other guys and if your ex doesn't like it then it means he still has feelings for you.
Good Luck!

Answer 9

if it did not work out 2 before it proably won't work out now. If I were u I would remain friends and don't try for another relationship with him

Answer 10

Learn 2 cook if u dont already know how. Make different tantilizing dishes 2 keep me (i mean him) home at nite. lol