This guy and I were datting for almost a year, and he tells me, less then a week ago, that he is breaking up with me....He said there is some one else..but he tells me evey day that he loves me..but he just can't be with me....because we live so far apart...Please help me...
2007-01-14 20:29:12 · 11 answers · asked by baby_kitty43 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-14 20:32:32 · answer #1 · answered by Biotech Boy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well , you havent said if this was an online relationship. Or did you know each other prior to you moving away with family or school. If it was an online relationship and you nor him made plans to move . Then its time to say Good Bye! If its a long distance relationship this happens alot. Trust me absence does not make the heart grow fonder in most cases. My advice if it was a online relationship or long distance its time you start getting out and not hanging on to whats behind you but dealing with the new future in the now. Theres a new world out there with new possiblities. If this relationship doesnt work for him , dont take him back. It wont ever be the same for the both of you . God Bless !
2007-01-15 04:44:20 · answer #2 · answered by lovie12346 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time and heart with this guy. He jurt you and now he says that he loves you. Tell him that your moving on and that it would be in his best interest to not contact you. Find someone that loves you and no one else. Don't give him the upper hand to hurt you. Remember this quote: "To the world you may only be a person but to a person you may mean the world". Give someone worthy of your time.
Best wishes,
Mike
2007-01-15 04:36:13 · answer #3 · answered by Michael W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. Seriously, just let him go, don't call him, e-mail him, im him or anything. NO contact. Tell him to stop contacting you. If he "loved" you then why is breaking up with you? Distance shouldn't be the reason. Move on and find a guy who treats you right.
2007-01-15 04:58:32 · answer #4 · answered by lupin_1375 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say anything. Just let go. You're much better off without someone who "loves" you, but can't live with you. I mean, we are not living some Jane Austen novel; if we love someone, we're supposed to be with that person. You wouldn't want to die alone like a spinster, right?
2007-01-15 04:35:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may hurt to do this,but just let go. It's time to move, take it one day at a time.Each day that pass it will get better, and keep your head up.
2007-01-15 04:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by sad confessed 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as you don't want to be just his little side dish... which i know you don't, then leave him... for good... Shame on him,, he even had the guts to say he loves you... damn... believe me friend... feel good when you dump him... What to say? say "Hasta La Vista!" it's sexier that way... peace!
2007-01-15 04:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by chd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him.. u will find anther one better than him...
what if u gonna marry or something, he will sleep with anther girl when u travel for work???
hope u got my point
2007-01-15 04:37:13 · answer #8 · answered by SAM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your too good for him
2007-01-15 05:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on..let him go..
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2007-01-15 04:39:10 · answer #10 · answered by right choice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋