How should I ask...?

Question

First of all, I've got a girlfriend already. Let's call her G1. I broke up with this other chick and we've been friends for a while afterward, but recently we had a huge fight and since then I did something even worse I shouldn't have. But let's not focus on that, 'cause that ain't the issue. There's a chick at my college that's in my class and we're really close now. We're into a lot of the same stuff. Let's call her G2. But G1... is NOT into the kinds of things I like. I design video games, I'm a book author, and I draw a lot. This chick in my class is into that sorta stuff. I don't know if G2 likes me *more* than as a friend, but I feel like G1 is not the one for me and I'm seriously considering breaking up with her. I wanna ask out G2, but... I just think she's got this... image of me, and besides I don't wanna ruin our friendship and find out taking it to a higher level was a bad choice.

Maybe I should make this a LITTLE more clear...
I'm 17, G2 is 19, G1 is 18. And... I guess that 'image' G2 has of me is that I'm just some immature kid. I mean we're still able to joke around and laugh and talk just fine, but here's one other detail.
One night me and G2 planned to go hang out and go bowling (I think; it was a while ago and I know we didn't get to do it) but she said she'd bring a 'friend' along. I thought, great I got two hot chicks to hang with... But then I go, and find out this 'friend' is a guy. G2 and this guy (let's call him >3) seemed like boyfriend and girlfriend, but I wasn't sure. I asked her yesterday and she said no, he's not her boyfriend. I JUST WANT HER TO LIKE ME MORE THAN HIM! Or this other immature idiot who's also in our class (let's call him Shemale). He's like an eight-year-old. He loves Pokemon. He's beyond weird. Yet G2 gets along with him better. I'm mature and I thought girls like maturity.

Answer 1

don't leave the one you love for the one u like cuz the one u like might leave u for the one they love

Answer 2

first of all you should read what you write before you send
this paragraph (question) is all over the place!!!!
try to focus on one though at a time ok?
Second of all try to focus on one G at a time if you feel G1 is not the G for you then cut her loose don't think you are doing her any favors
Third if G2 is the G for you , you will be emotionally available after you cut G1 loose
As it is I think you are emotionally involved with too many G's to really make for certain what is good for you or for them..... which ever you decide keep your motif and reasoning real/ G's don't need alot of fake bs to cloud up the already messed up love / hormone triangle
After you let G 1 go you will be more able to see if G2 likes you "that way" because most G's try to hold off if they know you are spoken for.
Sooooo... after you are realy available then take a look at G2
good luck

Answer 3

I think you should break up with g1. If g2 was interested in you and she is the girl you hope she is she wouldn't act while you are with someone else. If you feel like this g1 isn't the one for you any how and it is wrong to feel for someone else while your with another.

Answer 4

If you can see yourself being happy with her you should probably take the chance, because nothing would be worse than losing your current girlfriend anyways, and always wondering what could've happened with the other girl. But you could just end up losing both of them. It's possible to have too much in common... that would make you perfect friends, but have a boring relationship. I'm not so sure it's a good idea, but you have to do what you think is right.

Answer 5

First of all you've got a girlfreind!!! You need to decide how you would feel if she went out with someone else, or if she found out about this other chick. You aren't married, and you are sensing that she may not be the one then you will never know unless you tried, I hope you can live with the outcome of your decision, whatever it is.

Answer 6

you have to break up g1 or g2