Dear friends, I loved a girl..but I tried to prove my love and just lost her...she is really a nice girl. I am kind of stupid person really didn't know what the hell I was doing..she never appreciated my ways.
But m truly loving her still...and I can't forget her. I apologized for are the stupidities and anything hurt but didn't work. Because someone else was also loving her..he proposed her and now she also loves him. She always try to make me feel jealous when I see her or interact her...really m still loving her.
What should I do?...I don't know what to do...sometime I feel she wants to come with me but she never say it directly.
Even she knows I m deeply loving her..please tell me what should
i do??
I don't know much abt that person whom she loves...
2007-01-14 20:23:54 · 8 answers · asked by nbgl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear friend
One side u say that u love her and the other side u mention that u r not understanding what to do.
If u r really loving her let her do what she likes. U r not clear exactly what u want from her. If u want to marry propose for and if she accepts get married other wise accept her refusal. This is one example. The same way first decide what u want? and be clear to her. Act as per her choice. It is a true love leaving lovers what they want to do and feeling satisfaction looking at her happiness.
Hope u have got my message.
(I agree it is very difficult but the fact is love means loving without expecting the returns)
2007-01-14 20:42:52 · answer #1 · answered by Prasad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay,you said that she knows that you love her right?Well why isnt she with you?Maybe you didnt show your love often enough when yall were a couple.That can sometimes cause someone to seek other people who will love them.Not saying that you dont love her,maybe you just didnt show it or make her feel loved.I'd say that if she's trying to make you jealous,then she's either (a)over you or (b)just trying to make you jealous so you'll realize that she doesnt have to be with you,that she can have anyone she pleases.Why do you apologize for all that you've done to her?A true,heart felt apology,not just a simple "I'm sorry".Sometimes that doesnt speak loudly enough,especially after you've done something major,which I guess you have.If she tells you that she doesnt want a relationship concerning you,move on.Obviously yall are through,and if you feel like she's just saying that to make you jealous,move on anyway.If she loves you,she shouldnt feel the need to make you jealous or to make you feel bad by seeing her with another man.If she loves you,she wont mess with your heart OR your feelings.
2007-01-15 04:36:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
reading this tragedy i feel firstly sorry for you.but i think there is no point in looking back if the girl is now love someone then u have to accept that. if u really love her then let her be happy with it. that's make the sence and really love means u must be happy to see the person is happy whom u love. might there be a another girl which may feels same as you feeling for your lost love look for that girl who loves you and be happy
2007-01-15 04:41:11 · answer #3 · answered by bunty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do u know wat is love??U don't have 2 prove anything 2 gain love from a person specially girl.How do u know the girl is nice?I can guarantee u dat ur view on judging girls r wrong.Vat were de stupidities dat u did????????Mention dat.The point that someone else is known so y r u spoiling her well-built relationship with some one else???l
2007-01-15 04:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by sweetrose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You display all the symptoms of a jilted lover. A classic case.
First: do not put the blame on you. You are NOT stupid.
Next: We always want that which we cannot get. Your ego is bruised a bit, it is not your love.
Last: Get another girlfriend. It cures all ills.
2007-01-15 04:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by emiliosailez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No dear she doesn't want to come back to u dont fantasias thinks for ur self. Please leave her alone & u move on. it will b hard 1st but time heals everything. give urself sum time u will b ok.
All the best.
2007-01-15 14:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by simple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know what, "if u love someone, set her free, if she is urs she will come back if she doesnt, she was never urs." so frd just wait and watch.
2007-01-15 04:32:31 · answer #7 · answered by kashish d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
2007-01-15 04:27:31 · answer #8 · answered by Crabby Patty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋