i loved this girl, and we went out for about 12 days, we both were so happy, until something happend between us and we got fight. she hurted me and i hurted her too.
i tried to call her to fix everything but she said no.
so yestrday i sent her e-mail telling her that i am fine with that, and i will keep on without her in my life.
but in fact,, i am lying,, i am so sad without her,, i am thinking about her allll the day, but she refused me.
what shall i do??
2007-01-14 20:13:48 · 9 answers · asked by SAM 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off I think you should have never emailed something that was a lie. Second off, do you really Love her after only 12 days? You said you already hurt, why keep being mean with words. I thought you wanted to fix this. That email just made it worse. Now if you really want her to listen to you it is going to be harder than before. In order to get her attention you are going to have to go to the extreme. No more calling or emailing. Do something special and different that no one else has done. Good Luck.
2007-01-14 20:21:19 · answer #1 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the girl won't see you or answer your emails, you are going to have to do something drastic to show her your true feelings. I am a woman and if a guy had to prove himself to me I would want him to send flowers and chocolate and a card (Send her favorite flower and/or candy). Suprise her with an unexpected gesture of how you feel about her.
That is what I would want a guy to do. There are other things but with her not wanting to speak to you it is harder to apologize.
This may be hard but give her some rooom and give you both some time to think and analyze your feelings. Then after about a week or so try another email, phone call or a visit in person.
One other thing I know that if I recieved an e-mail from a man who I really cared about and loved I would read it. Even if we were fighting or having problems I would still read what ever he sent me. I may not reply to the message but I would read it.
I hope this helps.
2007-01-14 20:25:28 · answer #2 · answered by mustang_cheryl79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-07 23:59:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are clearly craving love, comfort and attention right now that is why you 'cannot get over her'. it appears as if it was not meant to be. if those 12 days meant anything to her at all she would have come back to you - and I'm sorry to say this but it looks as though she was looking for a way 'out' before and this argument was the perfect opportunity. sometimes loneliness can make us believe we are "in love" with someone when we are actually not. all we are seeking is the feeling to feel "wanted" and end up with the wrong person. this is not the "be-all and end-all" of your life, there are plenty of wonderful people in this world, now go out and meet some of them!
2007-01-14 20:32:05 · answer #4 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it was love after 12 days, hope you didn't hurt her physically.
In a couple of weeks you will feel better and wonder what all the fuss was about.
If I was you I would forget all about her and enjoy myself, life is too short to sit around moping for someone you have only been with for 12 days!!
2007-01-14 20:22:03 · answer #5 · answered by sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u only went out with her 4 12 days get over it
2007-01-14 20:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by ROCKSTAR IN LOVE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u cant relay on 12 days of relationship.....
i must say ur girl is very arrogant because she is not ready to listen what u want to say....
so the suggestion for u would be..... dont get crazy about that girl.....
love is far better than this.... the one who love never end up in silly arguments and get departed....
u see u r getting crazy but its not creating any impact of this on her..... that means she dont have any feeling any more.....
if she also shows any feeling and that would be the time to advance one more step ahead.... till that time take a break and relax...
best of luck......
2007-01-14 20:34:16 · answer #7 · answered by viv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's all it took to end it then it's definitely not worth it. Move on. 2 weeks is nothing, 2 years would be something and worth another shot.
2007-01-14 20:23:49 · answer #8 · answered by Ave, Caesar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. You went out for not even 2 weeks.
Move on and don't be clingy.
2007-01-14 20:18:02 · answer #9 · answered by AxMan_12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋