Ive been with this guy for a while now, as in since august, we've gotten closer slowly, because hes my first bf even though im 15. he wants to go to the movies alone. im scared but excited and wondering when we will have our first kiss? i dont know anything about kissing ive never really kissed a guy, he probably has though. any advice or anything? thanks
2007-01-14 19:43:50 · 25 answers · asked by munchyblonde 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oops he hasnt kissed a guy, i meant hes had other gf's and proabbaly kissed them, i really like him <3 :)
2007-01-14 19:52:54 · update #1
we are not going to have sex omg whoever siad that sheesh not everything leasds to sex i like him and trust him and i AM ONLY 15 no, dont worry i am staying away from sex sheesh just a little advice please :P
2007-01-14 19:55:21 · update #2
--a little kiss-- it comes natural
ps---someone get ahold of Princess and exlpain what 69 is to her.-------can you dig it
2007-01-14 20:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by mikeh_frog 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax. You really need to just go for it.
But for some actual technique advice for your fist kiss, go with the motto, "Less is more." Remember, this is not a movie. If you try to do too much, it'll be weird. I think the best way to go about this is to tell you what NOT to do. Do not open your mouth really wide. Do not move around a lot. Do not use a lot of tongue. Probably no tongue at all. Do not passionately grab your boyfriends face. Maybe one hand lightly touching his face would be okay. Of course, you can probably do all these things later, but I'd save testing them out until you've had some experience.
You probably wouldn't have done any of this stuff anyway. But, you know, just in case! Keep it simple.
Oh yeah, close your eyes. You wouldn't want to go crosseyed!
2007-01-15 03:51:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me say that everybody worries about the first kiss, and most of the time you will worry about the first kiss with every guy. but the first "first kiss" is the worst, I think you have to ask yourself if you are ready for your first kiss, are "you" ready, do not let any one push you into your first kiss. If you do not think you are ready for your first kiss then just tell him, if he cares about you he will understand, If he pushes you to kiss him, then he will push you for more than that. If you ride with him in his car, he has control of the situation. I think on the first date you should have your mother or father take you to the movie and pick you up at the movie. If you decide to have your first kiss, there is a posibility that he wants to do more than kiss, if he touches you and you do not have any other ride home you may let him do things that you are not ready for. Having a sure ride home puts you in charge of the situation, it lets you decide how far to go. and your safety is the most important thing you need to worry about. Some people move faster than others, only go as fast as you want to.
If your guy pushes you for more constantly then all he wants is the sex. and not much good will come from that. Only you can decide how far you want to go, but you have the choice to be in charge of the situation. What ever you decide please be safe. you have all of your life to have sex, but you only have a few years to be young. Do not waist your youth on sex, if you get pregnant your life will change forever, and you will loose your chance to be young, you will have to grow up very fast. Please be carefull, you have to live with every decission that you make.
oh yea I hope he has not kissed any guys, if he has run!
2007-01-15 05:45:51 · answer #3 · answered by shandar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with it. If you think about it too much, then you'll just end up getting nervous, so go with him and try not to think about it. If it happens then thats great. You can't really plan these things, but reassuse yourself that everyone has had to go through this at some point, so dont worry. And even if it is bad, then just laugh it off, he obviously likes you if youve been together since August so he wont care if it is!
Good Luck!
2007-01-15 03:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi you are too young for going in for your first kiss as it is the starting of any physical and emotional relationship between two people .plz don't let this precious moment go just like that if you find the guy really serious for then only let it happen because the first kiss is just like a dreame come true
2007-01-15 04:04:55 · answer #5 · answered by mithysmiles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone your age builds up this 'first kiss' as a disaster waiting to happen, but in reality... let him kiss you! It will come completely natural to you and you won't even be thinking abotu your technique or if you're doing it right or wrong, because there IS no right or wrong. Trust me. It will just come to you like you've been kissing for years...
2007-01-15 03:49:20 · answer #6 · answered by mattysmommy2004 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hehe.. don't be scared.. you can have your first kiss anytime you want it.. just.. get close to him and look him in the eyes and kiss him..
im positive you've seen those sappy romance movies.. kissing in the rain, on the beach, in the movies, in the car, in bed.. it all starts with eye contact and a mutual "i am going to kiss you" feeling..
just let it happen... don't worry about the experience thing either.. practice makes perfect
<3
2007-01-15 03:52:29 · answer #7 · answered by ashwee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
close your eyes, pucker up your lips, and apply them slowly & gentle, move them up slowly & then down slowly, for about 5 seconds - that's just a kiss.
If you want to make out do the same, after 5 seconds introduce your tongue into his mouth slowly, lick his tongue (it might sound gross) remove tongue, continue to kiss, when you need a break, pull your lips off him, secure his bottom lip by your lips & slowly pull away. - making out
chew some flavored gum or a mint before kissing
2007-01-15 04:00:27 · answer #8 · answered by jimineejavaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well when i got my first kiss i was 12 and it was the last day of school.he wanted a kiss and i was nervous out of my mind.finally when the buses started to leave i just got it over with because i realize,what is there to loose.so you think about it and just do it k.seriously trust me there is nothing to it and once you realize it the better.
2007-01-15 03:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by Alyssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go to the movies and have a good time and if you guys do kiss close your eyes it's kind of creepy when there open.....oh and by the way 69 is when u suck a guys penis
2007-01-15 03:49:38 · answer #10 · answered by princess_g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow, and it will come naturally. About the only thing you can do to mess it up is to force it quickly or make it rough. Let him lead it and just relax, you'll be fine.
2007-01-15 03:53:36 · answer #11 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋