I am 26 and ended a 6 yr relationship for this girl who ive been with in a serious relationship for 1yr now and we have lived together for the last 4 mos. we both have legal matters that need resolution in the same place diff reasons. She thinks now we cant be together because we arent moving forward & because of this we arent positive influences on one another she left on my bday and its been a week now. I trust her tremendusly and never have doubted this trust. I know she isnt committing any indiscretions. She says she is in love with me she just wants me to do the rightthing. In the mean time I hear she is back to her old things that she was doing before we got together. i have sat at home moping for this whole week and calling, sent emails, and text messages, to no avail. Dont know where she is although I havent really checked into it. What do I do?
2007-01-14 19:39:52 · 6 answers · asked by meagan w 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hate to say it, sounds like you're being the insecure, clingy wuss in this relationship, which puts a lot of pressure on her emotionally. It drove her away.
Get a life. Without her. When you're independent enough to stand on your own two feet, you'll generate attraction again.
No guarantees that it will be her that you attract.
2007-01-14 19:48:34 · answer #1 · answered by DavID 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the best thing to do right now is to try to get all of your legal situations figured out. I think the hardest thing about not having a girlfriend is you don't have anyone to process with. So I would take a journal and allow all of the things you're feeling pour out on to the pages. Cause I think right now you've been given this time to resituate your life and to make deisions that could change them very drastically. So take advantage of your time but keep a journal!
2007-01-14 19:48:16 · answer #2 · answered by Suya 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look .. First oof all that gal luves you .. and i can't say that in court , okai .. after this we can talk and you must change your point of view about her action .. she jus did this because she was afraid that you 2 jus keep on this and never proceed in anything, jus together and that's wrong i can tell .. so what you gotta do .. is really to find her by any mean .. THEN and be careful of that : You n Her must live 2gether .. you 2 must find proper jobs .. then when things become stable .. you gotta make a family .. thass all i can say
2007-01-14 19:47:14 · answer #3 · answered by andronaldo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she isnt taking any responsibility in the relationship--dont waste your time waiting for someone that isnt showing much interest or love-find someone who truely cares and makes you feel worthy
2007-01-14 19:48:08 · answer #4 · answered by lazer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesnt want to be with you do not force it !!! thats the worst you could do you can not make her come back if she does not want to...maybe she just wanted her OLD life back
2007-01-14 19:45:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh.....
2007-01-14 19:47:11 · answer #6 · answered by *Harley* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋