Most men that are in a caring relationship wouldn't do it. I am a marriage counselor and can tell you that 1 hour of fun wouldn't be worth the lifetime of shame the man would feel. It might not affect his partner but he would in fact be very shamed most undoubtedly about it. In my relationship I have ran across chances like this and I have more joy knowing that I did the right thing.
2007-01-14 19:48:15
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answered by Dr. Williams 2
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That's a very good question. With total honesty i will tell yuo what i believe males would do based on experience hanging with all kinds of men growing up, talking about women. Honestly, i think virtually ALL men would take that offer BUT i do have to admit their will be that slight guilt in some of us "after" doing it because of how the gf would feel despite her never finding out. This guilt would only come for these men during the early parts of that relationship...but after say 1 year then ALL those other men who said NO they wouldnt cheat would now say YES.
The reason being is because men are about quantity not quality. Its about how hot she is. In our brains it is about the numbers and free sex is always good. I hope you dont think i am being bad by saying this simply because i am giving you the absolute honest answer from what i have grown to believe around men..and i am talking 99% of all men..the remaining 1% like i said would only say no at first because their relatiobship was in the starting stage but give them 1 year and they too will say yes because they having gotten bored of her physically and they want something new...this is all assuming the gf never finds out.
2007-01-15 03:43:28
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answered by Anonymous
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Absolutely not. Even without the fact that it's extremely screwed up to cheat on your partner, karma does exist and it does come full circle so even if the guy never got caught, he would still pay for it down the road. Besides, sex isn't everything anyway. If two people are together, I would hope they're together for more than that otherwise they're not really partners, they're just **** buddies.
2007-01-15 03:43:21
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answered by timster1984 2
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That's one of the problems with the world today.We are willing to put our morals aside to do the things that we want to and can "get away with" at the moment.It takes a person that's strong to say no.Don't for a second think either sex wouldn't at least entertain the idea but everything we do comes down to making decisions and its up to the individual to make the right one
2007-01-15 03:54:05
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answered by tabloms 1
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that is an offer too good to be true. things that good tend to come with bad as well. i've done so with a lady that's not so hot, and a single mother on top of that. but some woman out of the blue that's a jaw dropper, never would never will.
2007-01-15 04:45:17
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answered by Monk 2
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Its a very tempting situation for any guy. I would like to think I could resist the temptaion but hey - you never know. One factor that will influence my decision is how much in love I am with my girlfriend. For example I dont think I would cheat on my current girlfriend and also they dont get much hotter so it wouldn't be a big temptation
2007-01-15 03:49:39
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answered by Anonymous
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It depends on whether you love your girlfriend or not. If you take 'experience you'd never forget' then you don't truly love your girlfriend. It is THAT simple.
2007-01-15 04:03:26
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answered by Crabby Patty 5
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I guess I would have, at least in the past. But I suspect a girl in the same situation would cheat as well.
I dunno - I've been there, cheated on and been cheated on... so I'm kinda interested in a more loyal relationship...
Gah - I'm single at the moment - I'd go for it... I'd just feel guilty as all heck afterwards.
-dh
2007-01-15 03:44:35
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answered by delicateharmony 5
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if a guy tell u "no" he's lying- unless he doesnt like girl. offcourse any regular, normal or average guy would do it without thinking. i know i would. damn...wait , that means u would never get with some1 like me huh?.... o well. 2 points for me. (guy have a natural intinct to mate with as many girls as possible) o wait i just think of some possible way that i would say "no". if she have aids, or been around town then nooooo wayyy`or maybe herpes-- umm eww
2007-01-15 04:08:02
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answered by san s 1
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A lot of guys would.
I wouldn't because, even if she would never know, I would know.
Of course, the question should be, which category is the majority.
2007-01-15 03:46:23
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answered by John D 3
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