clueless on wat to say to him now
2007-01-14 19:31:08 · 11 answers · asked by deyaunna 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't say anything about that situation just tell him that was before him and you can't do anything about that but now your looking ahead with your relationship with him.
2007-01-14 19:39:55 · answer #1 · answered by 2sweet4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm,anyways now dont regret on what you have already done and said.I hope your relationship has reached a level of maturity that you felt free enough to discuss your first experience to him.N'ways donr worry...cause this is the actual period to judge him.Just give him some time by himself...but see to it that you shower all the love you have for him by expressing it.If he still cant get overit wave him goodbye,cause that is what would have happened if he had known it from some other person or right form the mouth of the person to whom you had lost your virginity(as you said he knew him).Convince your heart that this guy wouldn't ever stand as a support to you if he cant get over such silly things.
2007-01-14 19:49:17 · answer #2 · answered by Dream Seller 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him "If he thought I was freaky when I was that young, scared to death and rigid as a Stillson wrench, he must never have had sex before me either. Good to know!" and leave it at that. Don't try and justify it, don't follow up with more details; just stick to the idea that you were scared, young and dumb and he talked you into it because you thought he loved you.
2007-01-14 19:47:18 · answer #3 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.... you kind of have to go on with life and not make a big deal out of it.. since it isn't a big deal, right?
but for advice for the future -- it's okay to talk about when and where you lost it, how old you were, and even if it was any good.. but it's always a good idea to leave first and last names, as well as social security numbers out of the conversation :D
<3
2007-01-14 19:39:53 · answer #4 · answered by ashwee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy who you lost your virginity to has the upper hand in this matter unfortunately. From now on your boyfriend will look up to this dude as 'the Man". You should go out with me because I don't know either one of these dudes!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
HenryXHansom@yahoo.com
2007-01-14 19:42:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 05:02:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say " You know what we can move past it or dwell on it. Either way I am going to move on"
2007-01-14 19:34:29 · answer #7 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is jelous so reasure him that it was a long time ago and u love him...x
2007-01-14 19:34:10 · answer #8 · answered by tootytoon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, just move on. n
2007-01-14 19:48:56 · answer #9 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ho yo ho seas.
Read that out loud.
2007-01-14 19:35:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋