Not to sound egotistical at all, but this seems pretty odd indeed. I was part of the popular group in highschool, played Sr. basketball, volleyball and soccer, partied lots, and come from a good home. I have had little "flings" or shortlived mutal crushes. However, in the end nothing works out and I usually get bored or get extremely turned off by the smallest thing. I know I sound pathetic, but I feel like I could very well be the last girl on the planet to be single. Any comments or suggestions... I don't want to become that "crazy cat lady"!
2007-01-14 19:19:36 · 19 answers · asked by fat_penguin17 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe the guys are intimated by you. A lot of good looking girls I know have the same problem. For the most part try to be easy to talk to or down to earth. Nothing is less appealing to a guy than an out of reach girl. Also depending on the guys you go for. No offense to some of the guys out there and that of myself, don't go for the fakers. (i.e. the Gotti types) You get what you pay for! Try to communicate yourself to them, show some heart and break down that wall. Most important part is be yourself, a guy will only last for what he knows is true.
Best wishes,
Mike
2007-01-14 19:27:26 · answer #1 · answered by Michael W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with you.
In fact, you seem a whole lot smarter than other girls because you end things when you are bored and/or turned off.
In other words, you are looking out for number one and that's a good quality to possess.
Most girls keep a relationship going because they are too afraid to look for someone new or they worry too much about what their boyfriend will think of them if they dump him for what may seem like an insisgificant reason.
You have high standards, this is a good thing.
All you need is some fresh faces. Meet new people, continue to date around before settling down.
2007-01-14 19:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all, there's nothing wrong with having a cat or 2. secondly, all of those qualities you mentioned in yourself are typically what a woman looks for in a man. not saying those are bad qualities, but a man likes more feminine things in a woman. like soft skin and a nice smile, basically a complete opposite of himself.(unless you're into those girly guys, which seems to be going around a lot now). not at all saying don't be you, but show a man that you are a woman. remember the old nursery rhyme sugar and spice and everything nice, that's what girls are made of?
2007-01-14 21:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by Monk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being part of the popular crowd can make you shallow and tend towards meanness... a fact you only years later realise. You probably gave the wrong guys a chance - guys who only appreciated your stats and whose stats you appreciated hoping that there would be magic and it would fall into place.
Hooking up with someone good-looking is easy, accepting their not-so-amazing idiosyncrasies when you have no real depth of feeling for them is not.
Relax. Chill with people who like and believe in the same things as you, fundamentally and you should in a few short weeks at the very least meet people you appreciate...
Good Luck.
2007-01-14 19:30:59 · answer #4 · answered by zhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's nothing wrong w/ you it just seems like you are not the type to settle...keep setting higher standards for yourself...but don't let ridiculous things like his one thumb being point 1 inch smaller than the other make you run the other way if the guy is otherwise great...the longer and the more you do stuff like that, the more you're liable to be alone...but NEVER EVER SETTLE bc then you'll be one of those" my man treats me like Sh!+, but at least I can say have a man!" chicks ..good luck w/ everything :)
2007-01-14 19:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by !!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Same with me, 20 years old, attractive, smart, funny, nice body etc...no bf. I just think (and this may apply to you too) that I'm a bit picky with some guys and need to start branching out. In my town, I know pretty much every available guy there is and it's time to get out there and stop wishing they will come pop up on your doorstep. :)
And don't be ashamed to be the cat lady...I'm already preparing names for mine.
2007-01-14 19:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it truly is definitely ok, there is not something incorrect with you. you mustn't settle yet provide those adult males a probability, per chance go on some dates with a guy. If the first date is undesirable then do not go on a date with the guy anymore yet in case you had an ok time, why not try it again. at times once you get to carry close someone slightly extra ideal you spot them in yet in a special way than you had at the starting up. good success to you! i replaced into in the same difficulty at the same time as i replaced into your about your age & theory there replaced into something incorrect as well. & I did discover my guy.
2016-11-23 19:13:37 · answer #7 · answered by pfeifer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your standards are too high, or as you said you get bored and turned off far to quickly, perhaps you need to reasses what you want in a relationship and go after that, either way cats are cool so don't diss them
2007-01-14 19:34:28 · answer #8 · answered by Michael M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 37 and also smart, athletic, etc. male and I have never had a gf. So you know it can be a lot worse.
2007-01-14 19:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by tlakkamond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you started college yet? you can usually meet all kinds of new people there...seems like the problem isnt you, just the guys you know
2007-01-14 19:23:26 · answer #10 · answered by ytrewq 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋