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1st of all...u need to know why did he said what he said? If it was out of anger and u think it's worth forgiving go ahead and forgive however, do make sure that he knows how much the statement had actually affected and hurt you. U need to also inform him that by saying those words he's not making himself very reputable or lovable is he? Try asking him how would he feel if you were to call him in similar terms when he had done nothing to deserve such bad statements. If he really loves you and would want to make things work out...he oughtta understand how big of a mistake he had done and make it a point not to repeat such mistakes.

2007-01-14 19:37:35 · answer #1 · answered by Aranel 2 · 0 0

The question is ,"What is a sluty tramp?' I believe you should ask him what does he think that these names are going to accomplish is your relationship? Is it your actions or the way that you wear your makeup, hair or the way you articulate? These are names, usu sally one is name calling when they feel rejected or not accepted. The question is not forgiveness but understanding.

2007-01-14 19:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by cathy c 1 · 1 0

He may need anger management control. He is disrespectful and he'll probably say something that stupid again. If you like being called a slutty tramp then he's the guy for you. Other than that get a new guy. He's testing you too see how far he go. Don't let him do you wrong.

2007-01-14 19:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by Kam 2 · 0 0

The question is will he do it again?

A man can be really sorry for abusing a woman every single time he does it. That doesn't mean the woman should put up with his abuse.

If you think he will stop then fine but if he's got a history of putting you down you need to see a real reason that you think he will change before you subject yourself to him again.

2007-01-14 19:22:03 · answer #4 · answered by dullorb 3 · 0 0

I dont think yuo should forgive him because he does not have the right to call you that (unless you gave him a reason) if he is truly concern and in love with you. Even if it was in a fit of anger he should not do that. However, you should also consider his behaviour towards you in other situations. Most importantly, does he respect you?

2007-01-14 19:21:14 · answer #5 · answered by yminisa 1 · 0 0

NO!!!!!!!!!! if he would call you that once he will do it again and get physical dont talk to him dont go near him he is not worth it ,it could mean life or death for you that may sound wrong and you might think it wasnt all that serious but it is call your local shelter for abused women and ask them how many ladys are there after they forgave their husband or boyfriend and what happened the next time,just get rid of the loser.

2007-01-14 19:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by shelly f 2 · 0 0

yes forgive him coz everyone does mistake in life jst think abt one thing tomorrow if u do sumthng wrong or say sumthng wrong by mistakely den he will b the only one to forgive u gal so cheer up have a big heart n remember one thng forgiving or saying sorry wnt make him big or u small in status ... GO AHEAD forgive him :)

2007-01-14 19:23:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

well......

my boyfriend got drunk one night and decided to tell me i'm "easy" because i'm an 18 year old virgin and he's an "experienced" 25 year old.... although he greatly apologized the next day and explained a million times about how it didn't come out how he meant it, i'm still playing hard to get.. just to prove that i'm not easy... :P

but my relationship isn't your relationship.. you may be stuck with a complete jerk who doesn't respect you even when he's sober..

it's all about the circumstances, baby, but i know if Ron called me a slutty tramp.. i'd be pretty pissed off...

<3

2007-01-14 19:21:17 · answer #8 · answered by ashwee 2 · 0 0

your thinking of forgiving him...? UHM you need 2 reconsider that...cus he shouldn't be talking to you like that! if you forgive him (& most likely all of his friends) will think it's okay to talk to you like that...which is not okay... even though it seems dumb in the short term in the long run things will be better for you this way since you will be gaining respect from the guys.

2007-01-14 19:21:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

aren't you the 13 yr old w/ the 18 yr old bf?...this sounds like an abusive relationship in the making get out while you can...someone who loves you would never say that

2007-01-14 19:18:22 · answer #10 · answered by !!! 4 · 0 0

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