I have just dated this guy for a week and we saw each other few times. This guy is so caring and nice. I had sex with him at the very first date and we had whenever we saw each other after. However, he told me he can stop whenever I tell him to. He's not a pushy type of person, I have a feeling that he's doesn't see me as he's F***Body only. He's just seeing me and not interested in any other women. I kinda regret it now cause I don't want a guy to misunderstand me or feel I'm his F***body & want to use me only. Therefore, What's the best way to stay away from all these ideas?
2007-01-14 19:03:49 · 4 answers · asked by ELK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well sounds like he respects you and when he has some''alone time with you''he also doesn't want you to feel bad either.Dont worry he's okay.
2007-01-14 19:07:29 · answer #1 · answered by Deanna 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what feels good to you but be safe. You'll eventualy know if you are special to him. This isn't rocket science and there is no need to play a game.
If you gave it to him once and give it to him ten more times and you find he doesn't care about you the same way you care about him, what have you lost?
You lost nothing.
However on the other hand if you deep down inside know that he is using you and you are giving him sex to keep him around hoping he will change, forget it and move on.
BTW, is that a good term F***body... isn't it F***buddy?
I'm way past the age of "needing" to learn new terms but I'll like not to be in the dark so much.
2007-01-15 03:29:16 · answer #2 · answered by Raylene G. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First why did you have sex with him so fast! You should have made him work for it a little longer. It would have meant more to him also. Now you will not really know unless you pull back for a while to see if he still calls and wants to hang out. Does he take you anywhere or just come by for sex and leave? If you do not talk or do anything together I would say he is using you. If he talks to you and actually listens to you, cares about what you have to say and what is going on in your life then I would say he is there for more.
2007-01-15 03:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i cant analyze at this moment but hey, just talk to him about it. if youre sure he's not seeing other women, then why dont you define your relationship. when he told you you can just tell him to stop and he will, its probably to say that its a no-strings-attached relationship. if you want to know where you stand, ask. if you dont like his answer, move on. he might be just using you as yeah, F***buddy.
hopefully he likes you enough to put more commitment in what you have, maybe he just needs a little pushing. goodluck!
2007-01-15 04:28:27 · answer #4 · answered by rinkumi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋