please say yes. i love having sex with my fiance and i don't want it to end what should i do to keep it good or even better?
2007-01-14 18:57:28 · 42 answers · asked by ms.hicks23 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I have more fun having sex with my husband than with my fiance (when we were engaged). He and i have been through so much (9 years of marriage, 2 kids) that it's so much more wonderful and fulfilling to enjoy with my spouse....and of course fall asleep in his arms!
2007-01-14 19:00:23 · answer #1 · answered by Jen-Jen 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Right now its fun, but what shared responsibilities do you have with your fiance? Once you are married so much changes.... and the hassles of everyday life become twofold because there are two of you. And don't even get me started on what happens once you have kids...
Think of it this way- the effort you put into your relationship now, will be different once the ring is on your finger and you believe that you'll always be together. If you want to continue to have good sex then NEVER stop putting that 100% into your love life. Make time for it... Its all up to you and your partner how good sex will be!
2007-01-21 05:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by Kass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be that it depends on the relationship (all aspects). I am on my third marriage and 5 years into it all is GREAT. However, the first 2 marriages, in which I believe neither I nor him were ready, the sex was good for about a year or so and after that it seems both partners were on different pages...so If you can keep communication open and both have a desire for one another, my answer is "yes", it's not the act of marriage it's what you both put into the marriage. Good Luck and last but not least, be open minded keep things EXCITING and never dull.
2007-01-22 08:45:32 · answer #3 · answered by smalls_1011 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not really a matter of that it will change in a bad way, but there will be a change. Sex always complicates things! What put into it is what you are going to get out of it. So, if the sex is great now, then it is up to you to keep it that way!! Hope this helps!
2007-01-21 19:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by Vanes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ensure that you both are comfortable, both with exploring new things and to trust each other with your most vulnerable desires. Make an agreement early on that sex will never be a weapon in the relationship, and keep communications open. I offer this Hikou for your consideration:
When it comes to sex
You can build a house of Glass
Beautiful or sharp
Keep it real
2007-01-20 18:03:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
in some yes. the others answered until you have kids.im not gonna lie yes it does change but i wouldnt change having kids. now the thrill is when.... you come to enjoy your time alone. if the kids are out u can gaurentee that it will happen. it will be good each and every time. try spicing it up will always seem to make it even better. especially when you havent been able to for awhile and when u finally come together ooooooo the heaven will awake
2007-01-21 04:26:47 · answer #6 · answered by mommie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it has gotten better, I am able to be happy and not shy with my body, we are more open to asking the other what they like or don't like. It has changed after having a child. It went from him always being the horn dog, to me being it, and I can't turn him on as well as he can me.
What you can do to keep it good, is try and do different things, don't get all kinky and weird unless you like it that way, but make it fun. We have a 4 year old and she is kind of like the "Parents" and they can't know, so the excitement of that keeps it fun...always hoping we don't get caught...we haven't yet, it is getting harder. Make sure to still compliment her and try to do things that she like, even though you may not like it so much.
2007-01-19 15:06:32 · answer #7 · answered by Sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you currently love sex with your fiance, then you won't have problems for some time. To keep it interesting, always wear your finest lingerie and even your high heels in bed and don't allow him to ever take you for granted. That seems to be the mistake of most men. Oh, one other word of advice and I'm sure most readers won't agree with this....but when you decide to have a family, when it's time for the baby to be born, do this in private with just your Docters and nurses. There is nothing sexually appealing about child birth and I've known many men who said they wish they had never witnessed it. It's beautiful to have children, but have them out of his sight.
2007-01-19 13:50:29 · answer #8 · answered by Alohalani 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WOW! Stop worrying so much about it and go crazy chica!! If you worry...it'll come out in bed...trust me....you can feel the difference.
There is a little bit of change if you get a rush from doing something "bad" or "secretive"...
Dress up....say what you want...go wild! You'll be MARRIED!
It's a blast girly...my sex life rocks and I'm married :)
You gotta communicate though...if you want something or don't like something....he'll be happy to know :) It'll get better if you do your part!
2007-01-22 09:24:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing to say that cos you have got married your sex life would get better or worse,
Love is patient, love is kind, and is not jealous;
love does not brag and is not arrogant,
does not act unbecomingly; it does not seek its own,
is not provoked, does not take into account a wrong suffered,
does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth;
bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things,
endures all things. Love never fails.
Spend time with ur partner- find common interests, make dates, travel together, minister together, pray and study together, shop together, go for walks
Talk to them - say something nice or kind, make a point of sharing your day, learn something new everyday and share it, compliment them, read to each other, verbally encourage them in pursuing their dreams, say "I love you" a lot...
Give them something special - It might be something practical that they need or something foolish and romantic - a book, a handful of flowers, a mushy note or card (or a silly one, or a sexy one) ...
the things listed about help to keep love alive and that in turn will always help your sex life
2007-01-14 19:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes it gets better. Just don't be shy about asking for what you want, and don't forget you're married to him, and not (eventually) the kids or your job. Make sure you always make him feel special and do the little nice things for him that you would like him to do for you.
2007-01-22 06:03:55 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋