I started a new job a few months ago. A co-worker recently got married in Jamaica. However, the newlyweds are having a reception here. I (and guest) am invited to the reception. Do I bring a gift? Is cash okay? What is the protocol?
2007-01-14 18:35:45 · 14 answers · asked by Twister 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
Yes, a small inexpensive gift like a picture frame or photo album is nice. Especially for someone who barely know. It's nice without being too personal or insulting.
2007-01-14 18:38:39 · answer #1 · answered by curyouss1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess it all depends on where you live. I just went to a reception a few months ago. The wedding had been out of state. We brought a card with a check in it. It is perfectly acceptable! Giving a check will show your address, so they will know where to send the thank you note.
Other people brought cards, and some brought gifts. So either is okay. If you don't know this person well, you don't need to spend a lot of money, or give a large gift. In fact, you don't even HAVE to go at all! Just because one gets an invitation to something, it doesn't mean you must go.
Do what you feel comfortable doing! If you like this person, and want to go, a nice picture frame or a photo album would be a good gift. Or give whatever amount of money you wish.
If you don't want to go, just say you have a previous engagement.
2007-01-15 05:35:28 · answer #2 · answered by Cat Lover 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Taking a gift to the reception is tacky, as is a display of unwrapped gifts at the reception.
Gifts should be sent to the bride's home prior to the wedding. Although money is usually needed, it is considered to be a less than optimal gift, because it shows you were too "busy or thoughtless" to shop for a more personal gift.
2007-01-15 14:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, absolutely bring a gift. I agree it shouldn't be expensive. The gift card to a restaurant sound like a good idea but I would also consider a Visa or American Express gift card. Those are great gift ideas if your unsure. They come in different denominations, so you can choose what's appropriate plus you can pick them up in most convenience stores.
2007-01-18 16:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by sylvie0402 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the place where I live, people are expected to bring gifts to wedding receptions. The amount of money you spend on the gift depends on your finances and your relationship to the couple.
2007-01-15 12:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by drshorty 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes any form of green (cash) should suffice how abouta gift card to Target or JC Penney? that ought to do.
If you want to impress get them a nice bottle of wine or champagne, as a congratulatory gift.
2007-01-15 03:17:58 · answer #6 · answered by CWB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arrgh! Twister, please do not listen to these people.
The correct procedure is to mail a gift (if you want to!) to the couple's new home. One does NOT take gifts to a reception, because it is, after all, a reception, and not a childrens' birthday party.
If you wish to make a gift of money, the correct way in the U.S. is to send a check...never cash.
2007-01-15 05:02:54 · answer #7 · answered by silvercomet 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You have to by something, it is more personal. They just got married everyone needs things for the new home... and it is a way of saying thank you for letting me be part of this special moment.
2007-01-15 02:44:56 · answer #8 · answered by SECA 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes bring a gift, ask if the had been registered anywhere
2007-01-15 02:39:12 · answer #9 · answered by reshadow31 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you should bring a gift, but keep it small.
Cash isn't a real good idea. maybe a gift certificate to their favorite place to dine.
2007-01-15 02:43:30 · answer #10 · answered by Kismitt 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋