My ex girlfriend called me after 3 years and i think she wanted to be with me again but i was a little harsh on her, but i love her and i've been waiting for her to call me for the last 3 years, but when she did i was feeling angry and wanted to get revenge somehow. anyway, should i call her or should i be waiting for her to call me again? (it's been a week that we haven't talk) and if I should call, then what is the best thing to say?
2007-01-14 17:52:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me get this straight: you're the one who loves her and has waited for HER to call you for 3 years, AND you were angry with her?
Dude, sounds like she was the one who dumped you.
I'm sure there was a reason.
And I'm sure she'll have less qualms about dumping you again in the future, since she's already done it once.
Think about it: if it was YOU who dumped someone, and you know that she'd crawl back to you any time you called her back to say you "wanted her back," how much respect would you have for that ex?
2007-01-14 18:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by DavID 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her back and just say sorry and say u would like to be friends again and go out 4 lunch.
Just take things slowly cos if u say u still love her rite away shes gunna think u r always gunna be there and *** u around trust me on this it happend to me.
Hope i helped u out
2007-01-15 01:58:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really call her. I'm sure it took her guts to call you after so long. How about you return the favor?
For starters, you can say that you are sorry you were angry.
2007-01-15 01:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your feelings of revenge won't change. Don't waste your time on her a second time. She is still the same person. Protect your heart.
NEXT!!
2007-01-15 01:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by iLLegal Mexican 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her, tell you are sorry you tooky our anger out on her last time she called. Tell her you have missed her, hope she is doing well and would like to get together to chat. If you care about her, don't let her just slip thru your fingers like that.
2007-01-15 01:56:59 · answer #5 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her...throw away all your egos..this is your chance to get her back since you've been waiting or this to happen since the last 3 years.
2007-01-15 02:20:29 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care about her as much as you say you do, man up and call her. What`s the worse that could happen?
2007-01-15 02:01:44 · answer #7 · answered by LENE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call but casually,
ask to meet up again,
see if things still would work out
2007-01-15 02:03:14 · answer #8 · answered by joo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we only live once do want comes naturally if u love her do it if she says no then u know and u wont dwell on it for the rest of your life on what could of been good luck
2007-01-15 01:58:00 · answer #9 · answered by bigbreastedbitch1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound a bit disturbed.
Do the girl a favor and ignore her.
2007-01-15 02:23:03 · answer #10 · answered by Swtf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋