I know it's hard enough with those who are bi-racial (Black dad, white mom, for example). But it seems for those of us (few) who are an even more complex mix (Chinese, Lebanese, European, Black and Native American in my case), it is nearly impossible.
2007-01-14 17:45:43 · 21 answers · asked by tlakkamond 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's not so much the skin colour (which in itself is quite unusual). It's just that I look different to any particular race. People can never figure out what I am, they ask me all the time.
2007-01-14 17:57:02 · update #1
Why would you be doomed? Find another mixed person with any combo and they will definately understand where you're coming from. Even someone who isn't mixed (everyone has some mixed blood in them, but you know what I'm saying), could marry you if you share the same interests and connect with each other. Love is blind. Only ignorant people focus on race and is constantly focused on keeping their race "pure".
2007-01-14 17:52:08 · answer #1 · answered by somegirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most of here on this planet are multiracial. I'm white.... but I'm also multiracial. I'm English, Irish, Scottish, German, and Native American--Choctaw & Cherokee. If you go back a little further into my family tree, there is also some French and Spanish blood. My husband? He's black.....But he also has white and Native American blood. So, our bi-racial daughter has ALL of that stuff in her. She has chosen a man that is white...but of Cherokee and Italian descent. So our grandchild has all of the above, plus Italian. Just one huge mixture.... And I do not believe her to be doomed to be alone. She'll find someone witha similar background, hopefully, and she'll be happy. So wil you.....
As a genealogist, I can tell you that most people, here in America, are of a mixed blood. As time goes by, there is just a continuaton of this. No race is doomed..... Not unless all of the full blooded people married outside of their own race. Which isn't the case, either.
2007-01-14 18:12:29 · answer #2 · answered by Brenda 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Na hunny, I believe one day we're all gonna be one big, happy race. Of course this will be very far in the future because of those rednecks. I wouldn't think it'd be hard for a mixed person to find a mate. Everyone is becoming pretty open nowadays. Well, maybe where you're from is still very close-minded. Anyways, you sound like a yummy mix and would be like a dime piece to all the girls here in Miami! Especially if you look extremely mixed ( you say no one can figure you out).
2007-01-14 17:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by stephyrose87 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No--it didn't matter to your folks. You marry the person--not the race. My first marriage was to a white women with a bi-racial girl. I'm white and I'm still acting as her father. I remarried a year ago to a black women and we are looking into a foster parents program where we will raise any race of child. Just remember that we are all related someway with-in 23 generations of people.Race is only important to the ones that dwell on it.
2007-01-14 17:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by redrepair 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people only marry within their own race because the communities they live in will be predominately of one racial/cultural background.
If u grow up somewhere with a diverse racial/cultural mix, things will be entirely different. Plenty of ops 4 everybody.
The idea that u won't find anybody because your a bitsa (like pretty much everybody, actually look at your family tree n you will find all sorts) is just fu ckin stupid.
2007-01-14 18:00:25 · answer #5 · answered by synicalprick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it isn't a remember of who likes it or who would not. ordinarily, that's human nature to opt to affiliate with people of your human being race, ethnic team, custom, faith, and so on. because the saying is going, "Birds of a feather flock jointly." almost all of people will marry interior of their race regardless. there'll always be the more suitable adventurous sorts of those who will go racial, religious, ethnic lines, and so on. that's a good element because it guarantees more suitable constructive communique between different communities and produces little ones, who, being "blended" can provide a sparkling perspective, and combine the finest of both worlds. No first rate, smart human being must have any project with this.
2016-10-31 03:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol......that doesn't mean you will be alone for the rest of your life, you never now you might find some who has the same background as you. I'm Hispanic, black, Irish, German and Native American and I am not alone or doomed....
2007-01-14 17:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by jayden 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Obviously people with a complex mix of races in their background have parents who were bi-racial (or more) who found someone, didn't they? Race is a poor decider of alone-ness anyway.
2007-01-14 17:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes, especially if you're a mixed race male. People want someone they can easily tell and trust and a mixed race person is harder to tell and trust because they are raised in more than one culture.
2014-05-26 04:46:01 · answer #9 · answered by That Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not doomed. It may take a little more time but I believe it is possible. You may need to have more confidence in yourself. Believe it or not there are are some really nice people that don't really care. Keep looking.
2007-01-14 17:58:44 · answer #10 · answered by bunnyrabbitt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋