It seems I date nothing but jerks?

Question

My name is sarah, im usin a friends screen name cuz I haven't made my own yet

I date nothing but jerks. :(

Answer 1

When you date nothing but jerks that meens your moving so fast! You want to date that person but you dont know him at all! So get to know someone really really well and you`ll find what your looking for

Answer 2

Where's the actual question? "Why are all the guys I date jerks?" "Why do I date only jerks?" "Why are all guys jerks?" Those are three separate questions, but all valid.

I think a lot of the problem stems from the fundamental difference between men and women. A woman will see a man who's cocky and think he's confident. A man will see another man who's cocky and want to kick his ***. ********* is not the same thing as confidence! You should be in a relationship because you want someone who will make you happy. Ask yourself: would you rather date someone who's maybe a little boring but who treats you nicely and respects you, or would you rather date a guy who might seem interesting but who is really a jerk who only wants one thing from you? If you have to think about that question, you need to reevaluate your priorities.

Answer 3

You attract jerks because you probably have a low self esteem and have negative energy hanging all around you - you need to create more positive energy around yourself. Nothing chases a decent guy away more than someone that does not have faith in themselves. The 'jerks' look for the girls that appear desperate and willing to take whatever comes along. They play you like a fiddle, use you, abuse you, because they know they can. Love yourself, set standards for yourself and walk with your head up high. The more positive and self respecting you are, the more you will attract guys that feel the same way about themselves. I personally run a mile when I see a desperate, self pitying guy - it just brings me down and I do not like to expose myself to a negative environment. Good Luck - Rochelle

Answer 4

I was the same way at one time. There are certain people we are attracted to, meaning jerks. You have to look honestly at the person and if he's a jerk, turn around and walk away. Keep doing that until a nice guy asks you out, then go out with him even if at first you are not that attracted to him. Eventually you will be attracted to and want to date a nice guy......and it will make more difference in your life than you can even imagine...Go for it.

Answer 5

I don't know where you are at in your life but your not being honest with yourself. Guys show who they are within the first two or three dates. If you sleep with them you will never see it coming. You've got to listen to instict and don't talk yourself into liking someone just because they say they like you. Next time let him do All the talking and then you decide if HE is what you need right now.
p.s. don't be afraid to change your mind if something about him is revealed later.

Answer 6

Well, dont let that put you down. It`s just a way of 'trial & error'. You`ll find the right guy sooner or later. You should also heighten up your standards of what you want in a guy; it helps you pick out the jerks and the right ones.

Answer 7

i know exactly what you are going through. My last 4 were jerks. I've decided to take a little break and stop looking for them and let someone find me and so far it's working because i'm not getting beat and there's no one controlling my life. Be patient. There's someone out there for you and hopefully me too.

Answer 8

History has a habit of repeating itself. Maybe you need to look for boyfriends in a different way or place? Try different techniques..........

Just a thought.

Good luck.

Answer 9

maybe you should try dating someone whos not a jerk. Yeah I know, I'm a ******* genius

Answer 10

You are lucky.
Some people only find that out after commitment.

But what about your friend DarkAaron?