Ok my bf said he hates it when it goes Quite is that a bad sign?
my boyfriend says he hate it when it goes quiet and thats first time it came up with it we talk a litte bit but then goes quiet on the phone i dont wont him to lose intrest plz help?
2007-01-14 17:41:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
normal, especially when you are younger, it is uneasy but toally natural, don't worry. When he says that he hates it,, say " ME TOO"!!
2007-01-14 17:44:52 · answer #1 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, look at the bright side. If you really embrace the dark side of life then loosing your boyfriend would make your life darker and, in a way, better. Either that, or maybe he says he doesn't like it when it goes quiet because he feels like he should be leading the conversation. Most guys don't like women that run their mouth all the time, so I'm guessing he just feels like he should be talking - not you. No real man would break up with a woman over some petty nonsense like pauses conversation.
2007-01-14 17:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by James B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably makes him feel real awkward? He may feel that he is losing you interest. I suggest finding something to talk about quick, or shortening your phone calls before there is a chance for quietness. Most likely you two don't have that much in common, and you probably really don't have anything to talk about. So, don't waste time, just get off the phone and talk to him when you do have something to talk about!
2007-01-14 17:45:26 · answer #3 · answered by recordexec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you new into the relationship? Perhaps you are just getting to know each other. When I was dating, I found it got a lot easier after a few weeks. At first, you are both trying to impress and not say the wrong thing. Good luck.
2007-01-14 17:45:19 · answer #4 · answered by sarandjas 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't know what to talk about then. Come up with other stuff to talk about on the phone. And in person watch a movie together and cuddle.
2007-01-14 17:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry but if yall break up because it goes "Quite" on the phone then there is something seriously wrong with him. so if the problem persists just tell him that your not much on phone conversations and more on person to person kinda stuff.
2007-01-14 17:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by thatguy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl i had that same problem with my boyfriend we would be on the phone and it would get quiet to. well i think you should wait till he talks it will show you that he likes to talk to you about stuff and if he recently stays quiet but you realy realy like him then either talk to him bout it or move on
2007-01-14 19:06:45 · answer #7 · answered by *bonita* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry ,, Im in the same situation
and he also gets angry than i get angry ..so i end up asking stupid quistions that even makes a bigger miss..
so its normal for me .. it means that we have nothing intresting to talk about .. so i go out with my friends do things than ill talk to him about it .. maybe it will help you.. try it
2007-01-14 17:55:04 · answer #8 · answered by amyhamad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His problems his not a talkative person like me in tha fone because you have nothing to talk bout so wuts the point of talking so for him he dont kno what to talk bout cuz you kno he have no idea wut to say or how to start a conversation.....I do that and im telling you wut my older sister told me when she did a 3 way call with her bf and me and we were all quite... but thats whats wrong...if he gets mads is not your fault
2007-01-14 17:46:52 · answer #9 · answered by Tha best!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he dont like to talk on the phone that much and it's a hint. he probably doesnt want to hurt your feelings.
2007-01-14 17:46:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't talk too much on the phone so you guys will have more things to say later on.
2007-01-14 17:46:01 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋