how will I know when love comes? me and my bf has been going out for almost for months, and i don't know how to know if i am in love.
2007-01-14 17:39:45 · 15 answers · asked by Brina.B. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of you still want to be with him every second of the day and miss him when he is away and think about him your in love
2007-01-14 17:43:19 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Brown 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The best way to know when your in love is to change the way you see life. When your mature enough to view the world in the eyes of wisdom you'll realize that love must first begin with and in you. Once you've learned to love yourself in such a way that will allow you to make the best decisions, you'll be able to see the man of your life in the eyes of not just love, but wisdom as well. Everyone has a good and bad side to them no one has just good things about them we all have defaults and baggage etc... but if you find that one that you know you can still love and put up with his "bad" side whatever it is and you can deal with it without stressing yourself out to the point of going insane and the feelings are mutual then you can say " hey, I'm in love. The fact being that fluttering butterflies in your stomach are long gone, time has past and you've really been through some storms together and "together" have survived the storms and are mature enough to see that love is truly unconditional and forgiving depending only on what you can stand and what your boundaries are.
2007-01-15 01:56:04 · answer #2 · answered by Lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"When soul mates fall in love there is simply a recognition. It is as clear an simple as recognizing that the sun is shining today, or the water I am drinking is cool and refreshing, or the rock I am holding is solid. When you're with the right person you just know. This knowing is not in any way dependent on a long list of reasons or qualifications. Soul love is unconditional. When the right person comes along you "just know," and you spend the rest of your life discovering why he or she is the right person."
2007-01-15 01:50:06 · answer #3 · answered by RixAloha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When u first meet someone one becomes friends first. Next, u become closer, then closer, and the next thing u know your in love. If you have to ask yourself that question then your probally not in love. Believe me, u will know when it happens and I'm sure u will want to take your time doing so!! Don't rush!! one never rushes into these sorts of things.
2007-01-15 01:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not. love is something that takes time to develop. there's no such thing as the fairy tale love. love is about acceptance. being with that person because you love them and accept them as they are with out changing them. focusing on their positive qualities. accepting the qualities you don't necessarily like. not wanting to change them or trying to. but you still feel those overwhelming feelings of emotion when you're with them at times. you'll know it when you feel it. unfortunately there are a lot of times when you think you're in love and you aren't. it's one of those things you just know
2007-01-15 01:50:41 · answer #5 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will feel totally comfortable with him, like you could say anything & not be worried what he thinks.
Imagine the rest of your life - is he in it?
You'll know when it's the right person. Trust me. I used to think that expression "you'll know when you know" was bullsh!t, but now I know it's true. Don't stress! I was exactly like you.
2007-01-15 01:46:09 · answer #6 · answered by Woohoo! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U will wanna be with him 24/7 want to be in his arms foreva, butterflys in ur stomek when u think of him.
Trust me u will no wen love is there
2007-01-15 01:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm no relationship expert if you think about him every night, love to hear his voice, dream of him at night, love to just be around him and be in his arms than yeah I'd say your in love
2007-01-15 01:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by Patrick S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Believe me.....you will not have to ask that question. Usually when it hits...it is more than obvious. So, if you are asking about your current relationship, I would have to say, No, You are not in love.
You will Know!!!
2007-01-15 01:44:38 · answer #9 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will feel it automatically when your are in love. no confusion, no games. You will know without even thinking about it.
2007-01-15 11:39:57 · answer #10 · answered by Bunny Baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋