I'm 20 years old. And I'm currently a Junior in college. I have an amazing family that cares about me. I have my group of friends at school. And I have a great boyfriend. However, even though I have a great support system, I've been feeling lonely. I've been crying to sleep a lot lately. I'm loosing interest in school. And I just want to be left a lone. This is all making me feel like crap, and I feel like its going to change my relationship with the ones I care for the most if this continues...what can I do to just be the happy person I used to be?
2007-01-14 16:46:12 · 11 answers · asked by shymegan008 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
wow, i don't mean to be rude, but you're just like my roommate, you have everything i want. stop complaining. you're just fishing for compliments. it's not attractive.
ok, now that's off my chest, have you considered that you may be seasonally depressed? it's possible. but go see some professional and ask them about it. in the meanwhile, exercise. it does make you feel better.
2007-01-14 16:54:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yea it def sounds like you are depressed. You might be experiencing some good and bad stress. Ya might want to talk to a doc or therapist so you can sorta hash out what has been happening. I kinda know what you are talking about though when you say you have friends and everything but you feel alone. Do you find you numb out sometimes? It already has become a concern to you so hit up a counsulor or maybe even talk to a friend who can help you along the way.
2007-01-14 18:08:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
See a doctor and have a talk to them about it, it could just be a case of depression that you need a good talk about and some medications or just have some underlying issues you need to resolve.
If money is an issue or a doctor doesn't seem the way to go for you try some st johns wort (you can get it at most health food shops and supermarkets) it'll help up your mood and isn't dangerous but like I said it may all be due to some underlying issues you need to resolve it may even just be the stress of college or something taking its toll on you.
Talk to some close friends or your boyfriend about it and go see a doctor, hope things start looking up for you
2007-01-14 16:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Consult your family doctor, you sound depressed. I get this way to...some people get a seasonal type of depression when winter sets in. Sometime you cant pinpoint anything, your life is going well, you have a great friends and family but life still gets you down...I would say depression although im no doctor I have been there...it could also be stress or even anxiety...are you getting enough sleep and rest... talk to your doctor and see which options are right for you..
2007-01-14 16:56:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't worry about it your just going crazy trying to live up to the expectations YOU think other people have for you. Your changing because your maturing and things don't mean the same thing as they did when you where a kid. People grow apart, develop interests, and readjust their perspectives on things all the time. It's just a part of life. You really don't have a problem but go talk to a counselor if you think you would feel better.
2007-01-14 17:36:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i don't know what has caused this but at least you have a great support system, now you need a therapist to find out what is going on , cause i think you are depressed, and you really need to find out why you are depressed, so you can get out of the depression and back to your ole self. So just go talk with a therapist and they can help, it just may be the blues. It is still worth it to check it out.
2007-01-14 16:59:03 · answer #6 · answered by Ladyofathousandfaces 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it's depression. It's perfectly normal to become depressed for no apparent reason at all. It will go away. In the meantime, just talk to people whenever you don't feel good. It will make you feel better.
2007-01-14 17:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by The Quiet One 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
communicate approximately it I had an analogous project different than it replace into flashbacks from falling out of a pickup truck brought about by guilt I reported it with my counselor, acquaintances and oldsters and it went a away. sturdy success!
2016-10-07 04:23:27 · answer #8 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you go to the doctor dont ask for a
SSRI MEDICINE
Go to a psychologist
OR CBT therapy
Therapy is the best medicine has chemicals
2007-01-14 17:08:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your depressed and have a chemical imbalance of some sort. Have a doctor check you out, and get on some meds.. they will do you wonders..
2007-01-14 16:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋