me and my girlfriend havent kissed before and like in middle school its a big deal for people to do this and stuff, but we both really want to and my gf has said she will but her best friend is the biggest gossiper ever and she would bug me about it every day all the time and it is pretty much impossible for her not to find out about it and shes gonna tell all the kids at school and then my friend is gonna tell his parents and then their gonna tell mine and its gonna be a mess, what should i do?
2007-01-14 16:33:21 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wait til yer older
2007-01-14 16:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me that both of you guys aren't ready to start kissing just yet. Just because other people at your school are kissing, doesn't mean you have to do it. If kissing each other is going to start this whole big mess between you and your parents then why even bother. You guys seem like a really good couple, just enjoy each other's company and have a nice, relaxing time with one another.
2007-01-15 00:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by sMarTie_gUrl001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have your gf talk to her friend about her gossiping. Thats not fair that you guys cant kiss because of dumb gossiping. Just go with the flow, and I wouldn't worry about what other people think. Don't worry you're not the only one going through that! Good Luck! Everything will work out.
2007-01-15 00:40:08 · answer #3 · answered by Maddy W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay im in middle school too....so maybe i can help usually there are places you can go hide from everybody empty hall way, office, so you should make a plan so you can meet and kiss her make sure you dont tell anybody untill you know for a fact they wont tell....they will feel bad that u didnt tell them the second it happend but they will learn to keep secrets i had that problem with my friends.....sometimes there are places where teens hang out on friday nights like movies, or restraunts kiss her there also its not like your having sex or anything so if your parents find out it wont be that bad because its just a kiss it could be worst....well hope i helped
2007-01-15 00:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by kennys baby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I understand that both of you'll have the urge to kiss each other. But its something that shouldnt be planned, instead you both will kiss each other sometime and some place special. Just wait for the right moment, it would be much more special than if you guys plan this sort of thing! Good luck!!
2007-01-15 00:40:05 · answer #5 · answered by Kittykaren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ehh dawg u is in peer pressure u see im in 11th grade and i ve been there and done tat. first u must actknowlege u may get caught or not. cus when u do kiss her, one of the two things happen u ll know why it happened and if u get it in trouble fo kissin ur girl dont stress over it man. shoot i could tell how many times i ve seen and experienced that stuff in my life. just dont stress if it happens. lol and if u dont stress ur girl will like u even more cus ur cool wit the drama(it donesnt bother u) and ur girl will look up to u and girls like tat stuff alot!.
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2007-01-15 00:42:21 · answer #6 · answered by stvincentman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm...middle schoo huh? you know the first kiss is a big deal.
i dont have any ideas for you but to "accidentally" end up in the hall at the same time while everyone else is in class.
GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-15 00:37:14 · answer #7 · answered by Niko 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My Friend, if you are worried about kissing, you are too young.
Their are much more serious things in this world.
But to answer your question: take her to the back room or wait for her friend to leave, then get her.
2007-01-15 00:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by JtoJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss her and get that first one over with. Be the first to tell your parents and it won't be as bad as you think. (hey Dad, I got a kiss from so&so today) He'll be proud of his son.
2007-01-15 00:44:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're in middle school and kiss and tell is the "thing" maybe you should wait till you're in college!
2007-01-15 00:39:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend kisses and tells then don't kiss her.
Find someone else to kiss that can keep it private.
But make sure you save it for someone special!
2007-01-15 00:37:31 · answer #11 · answered by Jojo 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋