there this guy me and him were going out in a while and now that hes gone i miss him alot we talk sometimes but how do i let him know he was my first kiss and that i still love him the problem is that he has this girl friend and i don't know what to do please help ?
2007-01-14 16:32:03 · 11 answers · asked by Natalia G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi Natalia G!!!
No you are NOT in love with this guy!!! Just because he kissed you, and obviously it felt good, that doesn't mean that you are IN_LOVE. That is a big word. Plus, he is NOT around, he has another girlfriend, what else should we know.????
Any way the answer sweetie is NO,NO, NO,!!!
Sorry as a YAHOO member, and some one that cares, I have to say to you that if you decide to go down that road your are already doom!!!!
Get off this track!!! And take another path. You seem to be very young, and yet need to experience all the things life has to offer but bursting your bubble,will be my pleasure. If this means that with it I'll will help you, learn the ABC'S of life in only one word..........!!!!!!!!! NO !!!!!!!! Move on, you only will get hurt, and probably there is someone checking you out, and you are missing his train, because of this. Move ON!!!!
GOOD LUCK, GOD BLESS YOU & HAPPY LIFE
ALLIV Z
2007-01-14 16:44:00 · answer #1 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's pleasant to hold on to a guy who already has his girl. If he wants to be with you, he'll automatically head for you. In this situation, all the 3 of you aren't happy. The guy will be confused, you would suffer the pain when the guy dates the girl and has a great time, and the other girl won't be happy, she would be scared and afraid of her man being stolen. If you're the one causing all these pains and unhappiness, I think you should feel the guilt, and you should just leave them alone. In the end, you may be the only one who's sad, but that's wrong. Think about how many more good and unoccupied guys are in this world. Don't just cling onto one who's occupied. move on
2007-01-14 16:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by emo_chik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you may be very young. Talk to him and let him know how you feel, then you'll know if he feels the same way. Did you have sex? Then maybe he is a player.
2007-01-14 16:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't endanger his relationship with his new girlfriend, and give him room. tell him that you still love him, but accept that he's moved on. write him a card telling him he was your first kiss and that you enjoyed it and still love him. just get over it and find someone else; don't be desperate. there are plenty of fish in the sea.
2007-01-14 16:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move on and wait, maybe he will break up with his girlfriend and then you guys can try to date, but don't break up a relationship that's really messed up.
2007-01-14 16:38:46 · answer #5 · answered by Chulis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is taken let him go and just move on to kissing another guy :)
2007-01-14 16:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Virgo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has a girl, so just move on. right now is not the right moment just be patience.
2007-01-14 16:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by jayden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont approach him unless he wants to get into something with you. guys tend to want what they cant have, so just hang out, do your own thing and he will "come a runnin" if thats what you want...
2007-01-14 16:36:57 · answer #8 · answered by worldtravelerrr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get over him and its not fair to threaten his relationship because you are still getting over him.
2007-01-14 16:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by I_am_me___ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything except tell him that if it don't work out with him and his gf you want to hang out with him.
2007-01-14 16:34:57 · answer #10 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋