Cause he wil come to me but no one else and my dad wants to get rid of him. and i wont let him cause i love all my animals.
2007-01-14 16:29:32 · 10 answers · asked by love_akeda 1 in Pets ➔ Cats
I think I have your cats sister... in my basement... where she has lived for the past oh 4 years...
Some cats are just like that... she comes out when she thinks I am home alone or we are on vacation (i find cat hair all over the house).
I try to go down and spend time with her every day... but I can't force her to be with us...
2007-01-14 16:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by akholler 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Kittens in a litter tend to be varied. Some tend to be bolder and some tend to be more timid. Your cat's experiences have also probably taught him not to trust other people. Your cat wants to be loved and cuddled (don't we all) but the need for self-preservation comes first. I don't know how old your cat is and where you got him. Was he always this timid? Your cat's behaviour could also mean your family members don't really treat him well if he comes out when you are not around so he's learnt to keep clear of everyone until he hears your voice. Your dad doesn't sound like a cat lover so why would he bother if the cat doesn't come to him in the first place? You should take some time and see the house from your cat's perspective, especially when you are not home. It'll help you understand why he's behaving this way and what you can do to make him more trusting..
2007-01-15 00:51:42 · answer #2 · answered by aken 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a cat who is twelve years old and none of my friends or family has ever seen him. If someone comes to my house he is zip under the bed.
I don't know why this is - I have had him since he was a six week old kitten. That's just his nature. When he is at the vet they always give him a blanket to hide under in his cage. No one ever mistreated him. I hope you stand your ground with your dad. You just don't "get rid of" a cat you have had for three years.
2007-01-15 00:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by old cat lady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he's been that way for 3 years...there's probably no way that he'll automatically just start loving everyone. You can't tell him, "If you don't show affection, we're getting rid of you."
Has this 'everyone' tried offering him treats or played with him? That might help. Get out his favorite treat or toy and give that to the other person, yourself staying nearby so he doesn't percieve the situation as dangerous.
2007-01-15 00:51:53 · answer #4 · answered by Athena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Animals, like people, have their own personalities. Your cat is probably very very shy, and may always be that way. Just be gentle and loving, and they will sense that. It may never be a "lap" cat , but it is lucky to have you !
2007-01-15 01:05:26 · answer #5 · answered by Lola 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's part of your family now, Keep him and love him. More patience and cuddling can't hurt. Don't let him around people that don't like cats.
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2007-01-15 01:52:37 · answer #6 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry ... cats do things in cats way ... what you need to worry about is your father...persuade him not to get rid of your cat ... she was just very very shy !
2007-01-15 01:30:17 · answer #7 · answered by pretty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a dog. Cats could care less if you are there or not.
2007-01-15 00:34:46 · answer #8 · answered by l'il mama 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i would just take it to the cet and it should not be scared but dont gice it away if your heart belongs to it.
2007-01-15 00:35:00 · answer #9 · answered by samantha_johnson2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let him live his ways. why does he or she have to change
2007-01-15 00:33:58 · answer #10 · answered by meeker the gypsy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋