I have seen this girls for a while and last week I asked her out. We had a good time and both happy to have another dinner later. Now, I am going to meet her again and have a dinner with her.
My problem is that I don't know what to say or how to show that I like her. Should I say directly that I like her and I am interested to get her as a gf? Should I touch her? Have a gift for her? I have a feeling that if I don't say this now then our relation will change just to a friendship.
any suggestion is welcomed
2007-01-14 16:23:38 · 23 answers · asked by Steven 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her. just say your are such an awesome person i love it when we are together and i would like to do this all the time with you, would you want to go steady...my ex bf said this to me i thought it was really sweet way of doing it. good luck!
2007-01-14 16:29:22 · answer #1 · answered by whatdoesitmatter05 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have been seeing her for a while but not dating you are obviously conmfortable around her and have formed a friendship foundation. I realise that you want to step it up a notch so that she realises that you want a relationship. Perhaps if you are uncomfortable in telling her face to face you should show her through your actions. Do something special just for her. Need not be a gift. Perhaps take her somewhere really special. Do something which she may find romantic. Send her a card "Just thinking of you" etc. There are ways. Give her a gently push and see what happens. Good Luck !!!
2007-01-14 16:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by smile_girl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You don't have to "say" anything-- you are correctly asking her out, and not going without talking to her, so she knows that you care- to what degree is something you can both work on down the line... Don't bring up the gf.bf stuff, that's so not cool, when you take her out to dinner, if you are going to her house to pick her up, bring her flowers- not a huge bouquet- a nice casual mixed bouquet of flowers. If you are meeting her at the restaurant nix the flowers unless they sell them in the restaurant or on the street after dinner.
She's no dummy, just be nice and she'll know you care-- have fun.
2007-01-14 16:31:12 · answer #3 · answered by mac 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I would like it best if the guy just says on the way home or at the very end, "I really like you." That kind of simple honesty just melts my heart; it doesn't feel forced or showy, just honest.
At this stage, if you do go for the gift, I wouldn't get her anything more than a flower or two.
2007-01-14 16:28:43 · answer #4 · answered by Jess 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First does she have body lanuage? Does she look at you in the eyes? Do you have mutual friends? (< Great source) Does she touch your hand? Some of these are a good place to start. Start off with flowers (try a single pink/red rose) and/or teddy bear.
Mike
Good Luck = )
2007-01-14 16:31:13 · answer #5 · answered by Michael W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Buy her a gift, something small. No jewelry! Tell her afterwards that you really enjoyed dinner and that you really like her. If the moment seems right give her a swift peck and take off with a smile.
2007-01-14 16:28:16 · answer #6 · answered by BlackMetalGhost 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're thinking too hard as though it is a performance. Quit thinking and just plan the event. If you obsess over what and how you do on the date, you won't be yourself. Just plan the evening. Don't go to a movie and just dinner.
You don't need to go into a speech or plan on making her a girlfriend. If she says yes to a third date, then she is your girlfriend. You are worrying too much.
2007-01-14 16:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by Danerd 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go with the gift...something small but not typycal like flowers or something. get her like tickets to a show "there is date 3" and trust me if your going on a second date...she allready knows! just keep on dating and let time do the rest. if you jump out and say you like her she might get freaked out. if your going to tell her though just let her know by saying in the midlle of a conversation "this is good for me...your good for me, i feel like ive known you my whole life." she will get the hint.
2007-01-14 16:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by www.myspace.com/jimmycody 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best thing to do is be honest but not too demanding.
Everyone is different when it comes to dating...some just rush into a relationship and others concider dating to give eachother time to get to know one another and have fun!
So the best thing to do is be honest and get to know her..because you would want to scare her off...LOL!
Good Luck!
2007-01-14 16:31:02 · answer #9 · answered by Swiss Escapes 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask her out on another date, just before the end of the date.
2007-01-14 16:28:31 · answer #10 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You havent even gone on your second date yet. If you come on too strong too early, you will scare her off. Give it some time to see if your feelings are still the same, and to make sure she has some feelings towards you.
2007-01-14 16:27:56 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋