ive been dating my bf 4 3 months, and ive fallin out of love, well it seems like it and we dont have much in common. should i continue 2 date him or break up with him??? im so confused.
2007-01-14 16:14:32 · 7 answers · asked by x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him be honest and blunt but nice. tell him you arent that into him.
2007-01-14 16:20:01 · answer #1 · answered by G-diddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you provide more details as to why you've 'fallen out of love'. it may be that you've reached past the initial stage of having a crush/infatuation and are in the more 'mature' settled part of dating where things become more routine. You should feel a deeper connection at this point, though, like you can trust your bf with telling him anything, and feel happy when you're around him, like a good friend, and more...do you feel that you can trust your bf and that he cares deeply about you? if so, maybe you should reconsider breaking up with him. If you don't feel that you can build a deeper relationship and that he isn't as trustworthy, then I would consider breaking it off and finding someone who you can build a long, lasting relaitonship . dating world is not easy, I know, and feel for you but know that a good guy/realtionship is around the corner whether with this guy or someone else wishing the best
2007-01-14 16:23:58 · answer #2 · answered by hj55f 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say break up with him. I have been on both sides of this scenario and it DRAGGED on and on with nothing but hurt feelings on both sides. Because you're no longer interested in him, eventually you will begin to treat him with indifference. This can hurt more than just breaking it off clean. So if you want to have a clean break then do it now, its not fair to drag it on because you dont want to be alone or dont want to hurt his feelings..chances are you won't fall back into love with him. You're doing him a HUGE favor in the long run.
2007-01-14 16:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by LawyerBarbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've found that if you have to ask yourself if your in love with someone, your probably not. if you don't have much in common and are not enjoying the relationship, then you should tell him the truth about your confused feelings and ask what he thinks. in the end though you will have to make a decision. and if your not happy, then maybe you should let him go.
2007-01-14 16:19:36 · answer #4 · answered by Always Question 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in LOVE - u dont need to have much in common.. if u really love each other u must also fully accept each other - every little thing about the person, all the good & bad about the person, let him/her be himself/herself. now, if cant do that - u dont really love the person.
2007-01-14 16:22:40 · answer #5 · answered by sweet_MJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up now. It isn't going to get any better. Trust me I know.
2007-01-14 16:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? You sound about 12.
2007-01-14 16:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋