just remember alot of guys(esp one like him) like to change gf's as often as they change their socks...which is about every week or so,haha...if i were u i would gaurd my heart because who knows who else he is messing around with....tell him u want to be close friends for awhile and date him say in afew weeks(or less w/e u think).if he still wants u then then go out with him.it will be a little test for him. i hope it all works out for you and that he isn't just a player.....it could be that he really dose like you and he left her for you and rightly so cuz u seem like such a considerate girl/woman but i'm sorry to say you shouldn't mess around with guys while they have gf's jus be their friends,jus a tip for the future.but i do have a friend he dated 4 girls in like 2 months and the fourth he has stayed with for like 7 months(and still goin) so it could be this guy saw in u what he's been looking for.just gaurd your heart and don't trust him too quickly and give away your good heart too soon! also try to keep phsical contact minimal in the beginning so u know he loves u for u and not you for ur hot bod!anyways good luck!
2007-01-14 16:22:14
·
answer #1
·
answered by greenismylife.songismyworld 2
·
1⤊
1⤋
For all you know she dumped HIM and now you're his fallback. You have answered your own question, he WILL do it to you. This guy sounds dangerous and he's playing games. It's not a good way to begin a relationship and karma will definitely catch up to you for hooking up with a guy that was in a relationship. The best thing is to follow your gut. Us women have incredible intuition. If your intuition is telling you that it's a bad idea than it probably is. It's not "sweet" that he dumped her for you. And it's not "sweet" that he cheated on her for you. If he was a good guy he would have went about it the right way. And besides, it sounds like all you guys were about was messin' around, do you really want the guy that you were" messin' around" with to be your boyfriend, keep him as a fling an no more, he doesn't HAVE to be your boyfriend does he?
2007-01-14 16:19:14
·
answer #2
·
answered by Rock, Paper, Scissors 7
·
1⤊
0⤋
If he wasn't loyal to her while dating her, he surely will not be loyal to you.
Do yourself a favor that in the long run will make for a happier life. Never date, sleep with a man while he's with someone else. When you are with one man, don't be playing around with another on the side.
Care enough about yourself to be a loyal individual and to expect that a person dating you will break up with you before being with someone else.
Society in general tries to make it seem that we all can do whatever we want as long as it feels good and no one gets hurt, all is well. Yet, look at the world around you and ask yourself, how well is doing whatever one wants because it feels good working out for our world.
Don't settle for a man who has no idea what respect and loyalty means.
GOOD LUCK and be wise.
2007-01-14 16:21:34
·
answer #3
·
answered by Mountain Bear 4
·
1⤊
0⤋
hey you should consider what he did...that shows a lack of character and a fear of being alone. If he was a secure and independent man he would have broken up with her before when he knew he wasn't happy. He will do the same to you because men are creatures of habit. I would find someone that is not or has not recently been in a previous relationship. Someone that is free and independent to go out with you. You deserve better...and if you have doubts now that is your common sense telling you that there are red flags....beware. It is eaiser to fall for someone with morals.
2007-01-14 16:16:06
·
answer #4
·
answered by LenaRose 2
·
2⤊
0⤋
If he was messing around with you while he had another girlfriend. The chances are he will do the same to you. I would find it hard to trust him. Trust is a big issue in a relationship. I would really give this a lot of thought .
2007-01-14 16:16:41
·
answer #5
·
answered by Janst 4
·
2⤊
0⤋
You can't really go off of what happen between him and his ex. Unless you know the whole situation it may be a reason why he cheated with you. At the same time, you should keep it in mind b/c he may be a habitual cheater. I think you should take it slow. Start from scratch and see where it goes. Don't rush into anything because you don't want to be the rebound girl. if you guys are truly good friends he will understand and if romance is meant to be it will happen naturally, don't run into it.
2007-01-14 16:16:09
·
answer #6
·
answered by T 2
·
1⤊
1⤋
I recommend that you don't get with him, even though he says he loves you he'll most likely do the same thing to you. That happened to my friend, she was messing with a friend and he had a girlfriend, so he "dumped" his girlfriend even kicked her out of his house. Then he started dating my friend. As soon as their relationship started getting serious he dumped my friend and left the state without even letting her know.
Just so you know what goes around comes around. So even though he dumped his girl, you guys were still messing around while he had a girlfriend and he'll do the same to you. Guys like that don't change.
2007-01-14 16:21:02
·
answer #7
·
answered by Chulis 3
·
1⤊
0⤋
time will tell. wait it out and build a better relationship based on love and not ...."messing around". don't move into a relationship you'll regret. on the other hand, he took a big step into breaking up with another girl, just make sure that if he does that to you, YOU are the one to break it up. this doesn't mean being paranoid, though, as that will surely freak the guy out.
2007-01-14 16:17:51
·
answer #8
·
answered by lulzmaster 2
·
0⤊
1⤋
Dump his a s s. If he is willing to do that to his girlfriend, then he will do that to you. That's why you never mess around with someone that you know has a girlfriend. You can and will be branded a ho because of this.
2007-01-14 16:17:37
·
answer #9
·
answered by sweetgurl13069 6
·
1⤊
0⤋
I would personally not trust a word he says and to find a man who isn't riding the fence, because the guy is acting in-secure and you need someone who can give his whole self to you 100%.
Good Luck and be strong.
2007-01-14 16:16:08
·
answer #10
·
answered by LS 4
·
2⤊
0⤋