ok look i am 16. i am in so much pain,cuz i am never happy, but i fack being happy.i have cut is the past and i do want to do it agen so but but i told myslfe that i would stop. but all i want is to be happy that is it so now in my mind i want to run........but then ((i no this will be a lil crazy)) but i want to kill myslfe. but i do not want to hute the people that i love
2007-01-14 15:56:16 · 8 answers · asked by amanda((lovein him)) 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Hey, it is definately tough to fake bein happy all the time when you're not, it's like no one even knows who you are. ive never cut before but i have gotten messed up in some pretty hopeless seeming things like eating disorders and it feels like pretty much your whole life has been pre-decided, you can't be truly happy ever, and you just want to jump out of your own body and not be you anymore, but i promise THINGS WILL GET BETTER! You must be thinking, im only 16 and i already have all these problems and i used to think that way, i even wished i were dead, so i wouldnt have to deal with the reality i had created for myself, but try to look at the big picture. i am guilty of getting so upset over the little things i feel like its the end of the world, but then i remind myself that there is so much more. i was not created by God to live an unhappy and 'doomed' life. we are so blessed to have this time, and even tho it might seem like He doesn't care, He sure does and is preparing a better place for us in heaven. So throw out those desperate thoughts and take refuge in the Lord! He loves you! I love you as a fellow wonderful creation of God, and I know that YOU WILL BE OK, DONT GIVE UP...praying for you
2007-01-14 16:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down sweety. Killing yourself will not only hurt the people you love, it will leave a skeleton in their emotional closet forever.
You don't want to do that, do you? I speak from experience, Amanda.
And I know this is hard to believe right now, but God loves you too. And so do I. Yep, I know. I never met you, but as far as my spirituality goes, I have grown a lot in God's love and since he loves me, why shouldn't I love you?
You seem to be going really fast. Try to take some deep breaths and get a cold drink.
You say you 'cut yourself'? Wow, that's a tough spot to be in. I still have scars on my arms from trying to'let the pain out'. Does that sound like how you feel when you do it?
You have a very treatable disorder Amanda. You're not alone. Look, if a goofy Canadian can reach out and tell you he cares then you must have someone nearby who cares to. Correct? :o)
Get to a doctor, tell him what's going on and I'll bet within a few weeks you'll be feeling better! Honestly, Amanda, I've been there hun.
If you need to, you reach out to me ok? I used to be a social worker supremo and I have disorders myself. When I was your age I was so mixed and messed that I didn't know my butt from a hole in the ground. It's a bad time in the world. I won't lie. But e-mail me if you want and you can talk about anything you want and I'll listen without judgment, ok?
God Bless you love and I'm at krazykritik@yahoo.ca (Mike)
2007-01-15 00:09:47 · answer #2 · answered by krazykritik 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's nice that you have people that u love, think about the many people in this world who want to die so badly and they don't have anyone close to them.
I know it feels like it's the end of the world sometimes and the pain is so unbearable that you think that death is your only option. You have to try to gain control over the situations that are hurting you the most. The more you think you don't have control and the more you feel hopless about a situation, the more depressed you are going to feel.
It's not crazy that you want to kill yourself, it's pretty normal, but only you know if that's a good idea. I would think you know it's not thats the reason you are seeking help.
2007-01-15 00:19:34 · answer #3 · answered by WORLD FAMOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I have that same problem. Only I am 13. I cut, and some people found out and I got sent to the E.R. for it. They ask a lot of questions... and I lied on every one. I want to die too... But, I want some way to kill myself that WOULD kill me so I didnt get sent to some weird nut house for suicidal people like me. I dont want to hurt the people I love either. I have great friends, although I hate my mother and wish she would go crawl in a hole and die so I could be a little happy. The only thing I guess I can say is... If you are really unhappy enough to not want to be around anymore, then you shouldnt have to. Im not saying go kill yourself, but you are suppost to enjoy life right? Live it to the fullest. Well some of the people in this world just cant do that. So why get more depressed? Do what you think you need to do.
2007-01-15 00:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by Jillibean 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You definetly need to go talk to someone about this,there are many people who can help, first speak to those around u who u can talk openly to, then go talk to a Dr they may beable to suggest some things in life tochange that can help...ive been thru depressin myself and its amazing the response from those close around you and how they can help. You may need some stabilizing with soem medication to get the chemicals in the brain eg seritonine right again..all i can say is good luck and wish u the best
2007-01-15 00:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
TALK TO SOMEONE YOU ARE NOT ALONE! this is serious and you need to open up to someone trusted so they can guide you through this rough time. You apparently have people you love, and that love you and will be there to help you out. DONT SUFFER ALONE. get help! get help and find happiness that your looking for! I am only 20 but 16 is young, too young to stand alone (trust me I tried). Your not the only one like this but you cant handle it on your own! talk to you parents, your teachers, a pyschologist! ANYONE YOU TRUST! I was a wreck at your age and the people who saved me where those around me. TRUST others! Dont let this go on for one more day! this is serious !
2007-01-15 00:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by STL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God loves you and you are precious to Him. Never kill a life whether it is your own or others'. We are images of God. To kill a person is to kill the image of God. Get connected with God through Jesus who died for us on the cruel Cross, and you will live a happy and meaningful life. NO KIDDING. It is serious
2007-01-15 00:20:06 · answer #7 · answered by tmthyh 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u shud stop thinkin tat u r upset or crazy.involve urself in sum work..help ur loved ones..make others happy n u wil hav pleasure in doing so..If u hav pets then spend time with it..itz fun..ok.Stay happy!!!
2007-01-15 00:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋