I am 19 living with my parents and working and going to full time college...and i got in a BAD fight with both of them..and they threatend to cut off my health insurance, car insurance, and kick me out of the house. I am barely making the payments on college, and i cannot be on my own right now......this is not the first time they tried to cut the insurance or kick me out...Im not lazy i work my *** off to payfor college and my car and they expect so much more.. i kind of feel suicidal...not that im going to do it, just im very sad and angry.
im not expecting any answers nor people reading this, but i wanted to let it off my chest to people i never met.
2007-01-14 15:54:42 · 8 answers · asked by Zarcaris 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Maybe see if you can speak to someone at college about your situation never know they might just be able to help.
2007-01-14 16:02:24 · answer #1 · answered by wilo_chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar situation as my father was a drunk..and I ended up moving into a dormitory at the college and finishing my education that way.
Because you are living at home and have your parents doing everything for you, you are taking them for granted, and also not taking responsibility for your own life.
It sounds like you are working. Go to the college Union or body and get a room..or shared accommodation, and stat taking responsibility for your own life. There are many students doing the same thing and you will be able to make new friends and learn to live life more independently.
Your parents have done what they could to try and make you responsible, but you are not seeing what they are doing and not appreciating their help.
Its far better for you to go it alone..especially as you have both a job and a car. You will feel far more satisfied and happier, and you can visit your parents and be friends with them again..
2007-01-14 16:04:41 · answer #2 · answered by Maggi 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
okay, you didn't say what the fight was about, and thats really the crux of the whole thing. Do you help out enough at home? Are you a slob? are you disrespectful? parents just don't get mad for nothing. Ask yourself if you can meet them half way, and if not move out. Get a couple of roommates or something, but don't cut your ties with your parents cause good or bad their the only ones your ever gonna have and someday they will be gone and your really gonna regret not keeping them close.
2007-01-14 19:54:45 · answer #3 · answered by Michele T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well don't feel bad(even though you made your parents mad) you know how parents get when they've got a lot on their mind and one little thing can make it all worse. I'm pretty sure that your parents know what kind of situation you are in with your money and such. But you should let your parents cool off and in the mean time go and apologize for what happened and you just better hope they realize how sincere you are.
2007-01-14 16:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by sMarTie_gUrl001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The extra time you spend round them, the simpler they are to study. The happiest type of horse is a non violent horse :) lip drooping, willy out, eyes dropping close, ears flopping out to the facet, muscular tissues comfortable. If a horse is comfortable then it truly is loving existence, satisfied in its environment and mushy round you. Excited horses are satisfied too regardless of the reality that: ears pricked forwards, eyes clean, spring of their step. it really is how horses act in a clean position that they prefer and have an interest in, or at the same time as they see someone they prefer. a tragic horse is the worst aspect interior the international. the mild in its eye will be out :( it is going to probable make you unhappy being round it. you won't be able to go away out a tragic horse. An offended horse may have stressful, aggressive body language and its ears pinned flat again. it is going to also probable be attacking you so difficult to go away out. And a drained horse, type of the same as a non violent horse i guess.
2016-11-23 19:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by riddle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you stay strong behind bad there is good! stay force and keep a positive mind,check around and see is there free medical that you can receive! it is going to be alright, I may not know you but I am very proud of you because you is in college and you is working really hard please keep up the good work, there is a great reward at the end! keep your head up and I know you have a pretty smile!
2007-01-14 16:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
my mother makes me feel the same way sometimes, but she's never cut me off or anything. you're not alone. they are proud of you on some level, they just want more for you. sometimes you just gotta let it roll and take it as a compliment that they think you're capable of more, you know?
2007-01-14 16:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as your living under your parents roof you really have to go by their rules. Suck it up until you can afford a place of your own. Life isn't easy. Your lucky your parents are helping as much as they are. Stop feeling sorry for yourself. It sounds like you have it really good compared to alot of other college students.....
2007-01-14 16:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by autumn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋