Ok, my friends and I cannot figure out this guy. We dated (a month) it ended...we became friends, hooked up a few times..he then said he wanted to be just friends with no sex cuz he doesnt want to lead me on. I said ok. Next thing I know he is IMing me and talking dirty, I go along and he tells me its to hard to be friends w/o sex, but he doesnt see us in a relationship. So he wants sex w/ me, no relationship but understanding incase one of us meets sum1 we want to date. Now if he was just horny wouldn't he just sleep around? Does he like me? Why doesnt he want a relationship w/ me, but a potential sum1 else? Soooo confused!!!
2007-01-14 15:45:01 · 3 answers · asked by missi312 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why doesn't he just have sex with other people? if he's that horny...and he's not saying he doesnt want a relationship, he just doesnt see us having one...I dont get it...
2007-01-14 15:59:44 · update #1
It's pretty simple... he thinks he can get you to give him sex without too much effort on his part, plus you'll be satisfied without a relationship. Don't fall for this, you deserve better.
2007-01-14 15:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he doesn't want a relationship but thinks he can still have a casual sex relationship with you. Perhaps he's having a hard time going without (and believe me, theres no reason to feel sorry for him).
Anyway, if this is potentially emotionally damaging to you (possibly by being used), refuse anything more than just friends.
2007-01-14 15:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by Bluehat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry but i don't think he likes you...he just likes the thought of sex with you. don't do it...you're worth more than that...
2007-01-14 15:50:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋