Here's my problem. I am half asian and half caucasian.I grew up..?

Question

in a western country with western ideals and influences and only knew of my caucasian side.Had caucasian friends , watched caucasian television etc. Now i'm older i'm struggling to find a partner because i only find caucasian women attractive , even though i can recognise the beauty of asian women.The problem is i look more asian than caucasian.And most caucasian women seem uninterested (even though i'm definitely attractive!) and the general attitude is that i should settle for an unattractive caucasian woman or an asian woman.What should i do? - it's ruining my life because i believe should only go for what you want and i'm just as good as anyone else.

Answer 1

Look beyond the appearance and when you find the right person, their heritage won't matter.

Answer 2

Yes, you are as good as anyone else and there are beautiful women everywhere. Just hang in there and dont give up, a nice attractive caucasian woman will show up that will turn lots of heads and especially yours. Good luck and God bless you.

Answer 3

Its not just your problem, its also the problem of the caucasian girls you decide you want to marry.
You obviously have very little respect for either people..and until you like yourself, you will not find someone to like you too.

When you fall in love, you will know that the person is right for you...refusing to accept your own birthright is indeed foolish. Its like an African deciding he will only marry a white South African and then saying they don't want him, or a monkey saying he will only mate with a lion and then saying the lions don't want him.

Grow up...Go read 'The Prophet..Kahlil Gibram.."
"Love, when it finds you worthy, will direct your course....."

Answer 4

How about you go for someone by who they are rather than what they look like.
I mean, there are a lot of caucasian women who like asian men, but seriously, do you want a woman to like you because of how you look, or how you act?

Answer 5

Some caucasian women(who are attractive) totally dig Asian guys, keep looking, they're out there.

Answer 6

Don't worry, u'll find the right person sooner or later.. my friend is having this similar problem.. except its in reverse! lol! She only likes asian guys for some reason, although she can find some caucasian guys attractive, she leans toward mostly asian guys.. its been hell trying to find her a guy.. but it will happen sooner or later. :-)

Answer 7

Try to be open to the possibility of a relationship with women of all ethnicities. Sometimes someone that you may not find hugely attractive when you first meet may start to look better to you after you get to know them. If they don't, then break it off. Have patience; go on casual get-to-know-you dates with as many women as you can. Good luck!

Answer 8

Being of mixed race and growing up in suburbia, I can definitely relate. Eventually the day will come when someone will catch you eye, as you catch theirs and race will not be an issue. Until then step outside your box. You may find other races attractive if stop focuses on your immediate surroundings. Good luck.

Answer 9

You will find the right person soon. So don't put pressure on it. Sooner or later a caucasian girl will fall for you and you for her believe me mate.

Answer 10

i cant tell u what u like in a woman all i can offer is that u try going on dates with eachi seem to think that asian women have a bit deeper beauty than caucasian and i think they r pretty too so try it out.

Answer 11

some asian girl are crazy hot, just look around, but if u still want a caucasian girl then just keep looking