2007-01-14 15:31:13 · 26 answers · asked by Beverly J 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
They don't really care about what God andthebible says. They care about theirdesires only.
2007-01-15 05:48:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two possibilities: they're either not Christian or they're weak in their faith.
Timing is everything. If the question of sex comes up early in the relationship, you can bet your bottom dollar they're at best a token Christian whose beliefs get thrown out the window for sake of convenience.
If you've got a serious relationship going, and sex is not a major issue, you've probably got one of the good guys. But sexual attraction is tough to ignore. Even a dyed-in-the-wool Christian can be overpowered by sexual desires. It's human nature.
Funny thing is, all the couples I've known who did the courting thing (no sex until you're married) instead of the dating thing, have been wildly blessed by God.
2007-01-14 23:48:39 · answer #2 · answered by High Flyer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ***PRAYNOGRAPHER*** Are you not also having sex with them. If you did not allow it. would it not happen?all Men want sex, but it is the woman that must choose to give or not to give. So my child you are no better then they. You are worse because you have the ability to say no, and you do not . It was you that made the act possible in the first place.Man may desire, but it is the woman that fuels the fire! You see my child when a man goes out on a Saturday night he does not know if he is going to get Fvcked, but the woman does. She can choose and pick. So don't be to quick to judge.The ***PRAYNOGRAPHER***has spoken,now you must excuse me, I must go purchase some xtra large condoms.Should we meet at the same place. You bring the water. I will make the wine.
2007-01-15 00:24:24 · answer #3 · answered by Praynographer ! 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
They could have no problem with having sex with you for many reasons, first of it's not because they are not true Christians and it's not because they don't know the scripture. It could be because the are horny and weak in which case Jesus will forgive them, or they are just horny and don't care about God right then and feel like having sex in which case Jesus will forgive them. Just to let you know Christians can do what they like in their faith as long as they become "saved" and truly repent for their sins after, that includes murders and rapists all can be forgiven by Jesus as long as they don't state they do not believe in God which is supposed to be the only unforgivable sin.
2007-01-14 23:50:19 · answer #4 · answered by Back To Enlightenment 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you are temptress hoe! Why else? And why do you chose to do this with Christian men? Do you enjoy being a ****?
Sorry, that was a stupid question wasn't it? Christian men are just as human as you are, and some are weaker than others. But, little hoe, even you are a human being. And if you change your ways and ask forgiveness, (and do truly change your ways), you too will live in glory with our Heavenly Father. He loves even you. But you have to mean it first. And when you catch AIDS and are dying in the gutter, please ask him for salvation, it is the right thing to do for your eternal soul.
2007-01-14 23:44:39 · answer #5 · answered by It All Matters.~☺♥ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because as men we will tell you whatever we think you need to hear in order to get your pants off. Christian, Atheist, Buddhist, Scientologist or Flying Spaghetti Monster follower, it's all the same. Trust me, most of us think with the smaller head, regardless of what we might say any other time. Some of us are less hypocritical about it, however.
If you're feeling guilty about it, keep your pants on. But don't expect us to stop trying.
2007-01-14 23:40:46 · answer #6 · answered by link955 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Either they do not fully understand their faith, they are going through some tough times, or they don't know their scripture. It says in the scripture many times that you should stay pure before marriage, so they must not believe the Bible, or ya. Why dont you ask them?
I'm not judging, i'm making an assumption/ opinion. Its not my problem it's God and theirs, and It's their choice. they may be in denial. It's not easy.
I'm not going to be offensive and say that they really aren't Christian, and that they are just saying that. As I said, it's between them and God, neither I, nor you should be worrying about it, or even caring.
2007-01-14 23:36:18 · answer #7 · answered by catchingfreak51 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Why is it not an issue to you having pre-marital sex with them?
2007-01-14 23:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by waytooeasy67 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Some also have intra-marital homosexual relations and don't seem to have a problem with that. Maybe they don't really believe in what they preach?
2007-01-14 23:38:48 · answer #9 · answered by rndyh77 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It’s so true, Beverly. I know what you're saying. The most "devout" Christians on earth with lie cheat and steel to get with you in bed. Do you know how many Christian swingers there are out there? LOTS
2007-01-14 23:36:21 · answer #10 · answered by A 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋