ok. my bf doesnt realli talk to me and never realli hangs out with me. well i thought maybe i should act lyke one of my friends and send him a message through myspace telling him stuff lyke to hold my hand and to acutally have a conversation with me. and to call me every once in a while. i dont no if i should b/c then i think i'll feel lyke whenever he does those things it wont be b/c he wants to...it will be b/c "my friend" told him too. so idk what to do...b/c i want him to talk to me...should i tell him myself or be "my friend"??? or not even say anything?
2007-01-14 15:28:14 · 10 answers · asked by preety_n_pink2005 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but idk how to say it to him. if i just tell him myself.
2007-01-14 15:41:28 · update #1
tell him how you feel and if he dosent feel the same then dump him cuz hes not worth it he sould treat u like a lady and nott make u feel like that he sould make you feel good to be with him and tralk to u more and just be nice an kind but i dont thank he really likes u that much sorry to tell u that but its ture
2007-01-14 15:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how much you talk to your boyfriend it is a good idea to be straight forward with him and let him know that you care about what he says and that you would appreciate his input. You have to keep communicating or he will never get and might put an end to the relationship. If you don't want that to happen then you better put your foot down and be firm, if it happens that he wants be friends then you know it was not meant to be for you and him be girlfriend and boyfriend. Just make a decision that you are comfortable with and one that is made for you.
2007-01-14 23:34:28 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key to a long lasting relationship if there's no talking..how would either one you know what your interest are in ones self or each other.
Which only means that he is not interested in you or he's not sure what to say or talk about with you or any young lady for that matter so like I said in the beginning no communication no relationship...
2007-01-14 23:45:07 · answer #3 · answered by Andrew H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you told him as "your friend" then he might be compelled just to do it as he thinks someone else knows about the situation. I believe you should tell him yourself. This way he knows how you really feel and if he makes no attempt to understand your needs then you can sadly get on with your life.
I hope everything works out for you and in time for Valentine's Day. Good Luck to you :)
2007-01-14 23:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by Scojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how old you are, maybe he is just not interested anymore. If you are still a little young, maybe his friends is telling him stuff and he is going with them.Here is my advice for you, ask him how he feels about you, dont wait around for him if he just want to mess around. There are plenty of guys out there that will make you the center of their universe.
2007-01-14 23:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by molly_tony 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tlk 2 him about it. find out y he doesnt do anything like tht. if he still doesnt hold ur hand or hang out with u. u should probably find a new bf.
2007-01-14 23:36:13 · answer #6 · answered by *~Choco~* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Tell him how you feel. You don't want to be in a relationship that you need to be sneaky to communicate
2007-01-14 23:33:48 · answer #7 · answered by Sheepish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him in person and ask him what the problem is
2007-01-14 23:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you had a dream and pu whatever you want him to do to you in it he'll probally get the hint and start doing it
2007-01-14 23:31:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him! He's not worth it!
2007-01-14 23:32:13 · answer #10 · answered by Forgiven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋