So this guy I am interested asked me out a couple of days ago. I said I would love to, and we made plans to go see a movie, etc. Unfortunatly, I got sick but I told him in advance so it wouldn't be too much of a problem.
This wouldn't be too bad except it seems to happen almost everytime he tries to plan something with me. Something always gets in the way. I'm afraid he's going to think I'm making excuses not to see him. Is there any way I can let him know I'm interested and make it up to him?
2007-01-14 15:25:07 · 15 answers · asked by ♪ your ex-lover is not dead 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him what you said here, you like him and want to see him but some times you get busy and things don't work out how you plan and ask him how can I make it up. Just don't do something unsavory if thats his idea of making things up to him
2007-01-14 15:31:29 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you be the one to schedule the date next time. Just phone him up and tell him that its really important to you to do this and he will like it. Its shows that your a person that can take the lead and get her life back in order instead of making excuses not to go out, guys hate that and could stop asking. Go out and have a good time.Good Luck
2007-01-14 23:34:52 · answer #2 · answered by Bruce 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something special for him or you make a move and plan something so he'll know your a part of the relationship and taking an interest in him.
2007-01-14 23:32:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what you just told us, then make a date and make it on a good day that you are both not busy. but make sure that he knows that you are not making excuses, that can be a major source of confusion for him. because that is a major area of insecurity, and he may give up
2007-01-14 23:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by em9sredbeam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A: give up
B: ask him if is would like to rent a movie and take care of you for a few special hours
C: ask him how he feels about spontanious dates.
2007-01-14 23:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea break it and make it a priority to be there not saying that what the other stuff id not important but try to blow it off them mention it ti him he'd say u shouldn't have come but he'll feel good that u came for him over it.
2007-01-14 23:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by Shawn A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you just said, try our best to go and do things he plans and everything should be fine.
2007-01-14 23:30:40 · answer #7 · answered by Jonny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try not to plan anything, get his number and when you feel good give him a ring and go out there and then it could be quite exciting
2007-01-16 17:37:16 · answer #8 · answered by huny3021@btinternet.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not u plan something for u two to do next time...and make sure ur available
2007-01-14 23:30:49 · answer #9 · answered by Lamar S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well .. i think that you should deffinatly go to his class . get his attention , and make out in the hall. lmao .
then go back to history .
heehhehehehehe =)
it'll work out . stop worrying
2007-01-14 23:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋