My daughter is 3 years old and cries all the time what can i do to get her to talk?

Question

she can talk but as soon as something goes wrong she cries first

Answer 1

She is controlling you. Don't give into her crying spells, Reward her for using her words. Gummy bears or something. When she starts her crying tell her she is hurting your ears and want her to use her words and if she does you will give her a few ..... whatever you think she would like. After she starts doing a good job at that for a while make sure you don't keep rewarding her, becasue she has learned and mastered it. Move on to the next issue then.

Answer 2

My daughter did this to, this is what I did.
When she starts crying kneel down to her level and just explain you cant understand crying, she needs to talk to you, so you understand what is wrong. Or if that is to much for her to grasp, just 'use your words'.
This is what works for my daughter, she will still start to cry, but now all I have to do is look at her and go 'what' and she will stop crying and tell me what she is upset about.
Sometimes when she is in full swing, I might have to talk to her calmly until she can control her crying to the point where she can stop. After a while she'll figure out its best just to talk and then cry if she needs to.
I hope this works for you. Good Luck

Answer 3

let her cry don't give her what she wants until you have been able to clam her down and asked what it is that she needs. it seems that right now when shes cries she gets things faster make that stop if that's the case but always make sure she tells you in a calm way what she wants or needs and doesn't just get it cause shes crying