We've had mutual friends & have always had class together (same major).
This makes it even harder to get to know him b/c he already KNOWS I like him and I'm shy. I'm ALWAYS embarassed around him b/c of this but sometimes I've gotten the idea that he reciprocates b/c: he's sat next to me in class, has tried to ask me a q. in class (he's really smart and knows what's going on, so...), he looks at me sometimes and kind of smiles, lingered once and pretended to read something in the hall when I was talking to a friend just so he could eavesdrop, & the instant we were done talking, he looked embarassed & walked in the opp. direction so I wouldn't bump into him, etc., etc.
I can't type all ex.'s but it's been 2 yrs! If he liked me, wouldn't he have done something? Maybe he's tried but I never let him get beyond "hi" (again, shyness). Then again, maybe he just likes the attention?
If he has ever liked me but just gave up, how can I get to know him w/o looking desperate? Please HELP!
2007-01-14 15:01:57 · 3 answers · asked by abby j 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S. I've learned: never put anything in writing. So...all notes, IMing, and phone calls aside, how can I get to know him *in person*?
He'll KNOW I'm hitting on him even if I innocently ask him a question, so how do I get around that fact & flirt w/ him w/o feeling like a desperate idiot who's not even sure he reciprocates?
2007-01-14 15:13:14 · update #1
I think he likes you or he may think you're cute. Maybe you should form a study group for an up coming exam and get to know him. Or you can ask that mutual friend to ask him what he thinks about you.
2007-01-14 15:53:38 · answer #1 · answered by katnap20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out on a date. Write a note.
2007-01-14 23:06:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ask him out because it sounds like he likes u. good luck
2007-01-14 23:07:11 · answer #3 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋