Should I give in and call her or be tough and not call her I feel if do she will loze any respect that .?

Question

she has for me.It seems like she dose'nt realy have allot of respect because of the way she does things.She is a new girlfriend and I dont know women are so funny she may be playing one of those games but I don't want to be a sucker.It seems the nicer I am the more they want take advantage and treat me like crap.

Answer 1

Don't call her for aleast another 24hrs.. let her feel the pressure, if she really cares she will be wondering why you haven't called. It's going to be hard keeping yourself from not picking up the phone or thinking about it, but do your best. She probably thinks of you as a little bit of a pushover, especailly if she has done things that even you notice are a bit harsh. And next time you talk to her, keep the conversation short, simple,and then out of nowhere let her know you have to go(get off the phone with her first) and that you'll call her back(don't call again for another 24hrs). Engage in the conversation as if you are so busy that you forgot that you two even had and issue, and even more so busy, that you have to end the conversation.Let her know that you have another call coming in and hang up or ring your doorbell and put the phone on down and never come back. I usaully don't encourage these sort of games, but I am telling you sometimes it takes a curve ball like that to make the chaser become the chasee.

-Oh, yeh after that conversation she'll call you back either angry or pouting. You'll have her right where you want her. Let her know it wasn't that serious and that you didn't mean to make her upset. But trust me, she'll think twice about pushing you off or playing you so much, b/c she'll think you may not be as quick to come back next time.

After writting this, i've realized one other thing, she doesn't deserve it. Find a new girlfriend.

Answer 2

Dude, call her. You're a guy. If she's your girlfriend as in dating she must like you. You're not a sucker for being a gentleman. But don't call her too much, or right on time, because then you will seem like a sucker. She will respect you more if you treat her like a lady. Call her every two to four days. Don't go past a week, she may become angry. Acting too tough will and can make a girl lose respect for you. If she's a girl that has respect for herself she'll just leave you alone. If you've already called two or three times (days spaced apart I hope) then leave her alone if she doesn't return your call within a week. Hope that helps.

Answer 3

Not all woman are alike, if it seems you are being played you just may be. But do not be to quick to judge. My advice dear is to be a gentleman always. It reflects on your character. If she takes advantage of you the nicer you are then she is not the right one for you. And yes woman are very funny and strange. We have emotions that we don't even know exist. I wish you the best of luck. Only you know her, talk it over. Get a feel for what she really wants and let her know that respect is very important to you. We are not perfect either Hun. good luck

Answer 4

You get the respect you expect.
If you consider yourself a 'sucker' you will give those messages and get treated as such.
Relationships are not about 'giving in' or taking control. If you want to ask her out, you should do so, and if she says no, respect that choice.
I would not want to go out with a new girlfriend if she had no respect for me...that would be demoralising, and you are giving someone else the power to make you feel bad about yourself.

Go and do something worthwhile like study, join a gym, volunteer work, or get a second job..and when its time for you to meet the right person...you will know.

Please treat yourself with respect, and avoid anyone who makes you feel you do not deserve respect.

Answer 5

Yeah women want you to call them and then hang up or if they have caller ID that gives them the ability to know they succeeded. But the point is, this will set the tone for the rest of your relationship, is she worth it? I guess ultimately they need to feel like they are, that's why they play these mind games/tests. This is why sex feels good, if it didn't the human race would be doomed.

Answer 6

well, see, you sorta left out the rest of the story. a new girlfriend? call her with an inventive date idea and be specific about where and when. tell her you're researching coffee shops and need another opinion, ask her to a concert, take her to visit grandma in the nursing home or something. just call her once, and go from there.

Answer 7

girls luv nice guys, always be nice but wen it comes to some thing serious dont be to harsh or girls breaks out in tears easy. dont call a girl to much or they will think ur desperate and a loser like u have nothing better to do

good luck :)

Answer 8

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Answer 9

It depends on what you two are arguing about.
And if a woman treats you badly when you treat her well, you don't need her. A real woman would appreciate being treated well.

Answer 10

When my ex used to not call i'd think it's cuz i said something wrong and he didnt' wanna talk to me.(insecure, i know) so maybe you should call. don't let girls treat you like crap....get a good one;)