Okay so about 5 months ago my bestfriend cheated on her boyfriend "Zale" with her ex "Tom". Zale and her broke up and since then me and Zale became really close friends. Recently he told me he liked me and I like him, but my friend seems to think that i shouldnt go out with him because he is her ex and were best friends. The thing is after she cheated on Zale her and Tom got back together and have been together since then. If she doesnt like Zale anymore and has moved on.. What is so wrong about me and Zale hooking up?!
2007-01-14 14:57:34 · 10 answers · asked by ...*Crazii iin love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hook up girl. She screwed him over and obviously she didn't want to be with him. It is really none of her concern. Weigh your relationship with your friend versus the potential relationship with Zale. If not having her in your life for the present time doesn't bother you, then go for it. Good luck to you.
2007-01-14 15:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by King of Stinkville 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a real bestfriend then you will respect your friends wishes. Now if she says fine with it the go for it. It doesn't matter if she got back together with ex. Would you prefer to lose a bestfriend????? If so then go ahead and do it but that would be really wrong.
2007-01-14 15:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are truly best friends which i have found that years can go by and you think you are but what a shock when people betray you but why want second hand stuff thats just gross find someone who someone else hasnt been with you'll be happier in the long run
2007-01-14 15:02:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
relies upon on the guy. i've got been the reason in the back of many a cat combat and that i never even observed any of them! in certainty if somebody thinks its incorrect then their going to pissed. i haven't come throughout the time of somebody who gets kinda aggravated yet does not rather strategies. So theres not a great number of of challenge of finding somebody whos...Inbetween?
2016-10-19 23:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if you really like him don't let your friend try to get in the way of that. also, if she cheated on him she obviously didn't want him anyway, so it shouldn't be an issue, talk to her tell her about how you feel, and honestly if shes your truly your friend she'll want you to be happy, and wont have an issue with you dating him. good luck hun!!
2007-01-14 15:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by maddog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit down with her and have a talk. Ask her why it bothers her so much ask her if it is because she geniunly has feelings for him or if it is just because she has a hard time seing him happy with some one else who actually likes him.
2007-01-14 15:10:56 · answer #6 · answered by viva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothin is wrong with it, shes just jealous, and maybe she has feelings for him still? If you decide to get with him though , she may decide that she doesnt want to hang out with you anymore, so you may have to make a decision. go with what your heart tell you.
2007-01-14 15:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with that tell your friend to build a bridge then "get over it"
2007-01-14 15:00:21 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your bestfriend isn't to much of a friend.
2007-01-14 15:03:17 · answer #9 · answered by sportfreak7930 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing, ur friend is just a man hog
2007-01-14 15:02:01 · answer #10 · answered by Still Doll << 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋