My sister came back from Vegas and I asked if she wants me to go out and buy her and her friend food...I walk up and see her and her guy friend....really quiet sensitive guy and they were having it in clear view but they didn't see me...I was in shock but didn't say anything and walked back downstairs...should I say something? What would you do?
I know its none of my business but I just am in shock a bit and didn't know they were together...plus me and my sister are close...so...what do you think? should I tell her?
2007-01-14 14:57:15 · 12 answers · asked by kowalley 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course tell her so that you do not have this same experience again. She's your sister gotta love her.
2007-01-14 15:18:35 · answer #1 · answered by hammer&nails 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's none of your business really. If she wanted to confess that she was experiencing sexual intimacy you would have been the first to tell, but she didn't. I wouldn't take it personally. Even if the relationship bewteen two people is close it doesn't ever mean there will not be things about the person you don't know. A close relationship doesn't warrant one or both of the individuals involved to disclose every single thing happening in their lives. I am certain your sister has her reasons for not telling you.
And could there be some very personal things you are experiencing that you have not elected to share with your sister.?
If the answer is yes or no---it was within your right to disclose the information or keep it to yourself. Neither answer is a wrong answer.
2007-01-14 23:30:26 · answer #2 · answered by roddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd find a way to ask her subtley. You know, get into a conversation with her, move it to guys and boyfriends, then bring up that particular point... Don't just outright say "Hey sis, I saw you and Joe Whathisface doing the nasty the other day."
2007-01-14 23:03:41 · answer #3 · answered by zellozigglers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was embarrassing wasn't it? i walked in and saw my son and his girlfriend..uh...right in the middle of it. (know what i mean?)
they had just left the room, i don't know how they got undressed that fast, i was about ready to take a christmas picture i had actually stuck the camera in the door before i walked in.
we laughed about it later but i was soooooooo embarrassed.
my best advice is to make quite a bit of noise before you enter a room where they are.
2007-01-14 23:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by angel1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't tell her, I would have run off to get a camera. Then I would have took photos for blackmail purposes
2007-01-14 23:02:13 · answer #5 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister needs to lock the door.
2007-01-14 23:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah i think id probably just try to forget that. its your sisters business who she is with...maybe she was going to tell you but hasnt got the chance yet. let her come to you.
2007-01-14 23:02:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!Leave well enough alone. You may lose some of your closeness out of embarassement on both patrs.
2007-01-14 23:02:48 · answer #8 · answered by frenchfry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell her but your conscious will soon catch up with you so it's better if you tell her now. Don't wait too long.
2007-01-14 23:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by Sexy S. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no! r u crazy! they will think you were spying and take it all out of praportion but if you think ur sister won't do that then tell her.
2007-01-14 23:06:32 · answer #10 · answered by DDR QUEEN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋