i just started bjs with my bf. what is the normal length of time before he comes? its about 3 minutes until he does..is that too long? or is it good that it takes that long? sometimes i stop cause my jaw hurts, and he says "almost there".... i dunno, i just thought it was a quicker process
2007-01-14 14:52:43 · 11 answers · asked by mousemus 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your getting of easy. Try doing it with your hand so you can take a break on your mouth. You can also fool around with your tounge a while.You dont have to use your mouth all the time.The process depends on many things and not all guys are the same.
2007-01-14 15:03:42 · answer #1 · answered by maidapr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL... Not at you, dear. Just at the fact that this happens to all of us... So, don't feel alone, ok?
Truly, this all depends on you. A guy will come as fast as you want him to. The length of time will depend on how excited he is before the act. If you know different skills, that might also help. Try to not just go in and out, sucking... Use your hands, as well. Mimic what you are doing with your mouth with your hand on his shaft. Some guys like to be "played with the sack", too. It's ok to ask him what feels better for him, too. And, it is definitely ok to tell him when you are getting tired. If he doesn't like it, then tell him to give you oral sex for a whole five minutes, see if that doesn't bother him...
Try alternating oral sex with using your hand alone. It will feel good anyway because his shaft will already be moist, and it will feel sort of like oral sex. Just, try to keep it wet while you to it. The wetter the better. Trust me on that one.
Hope this helps!
By the way... if he lasts that long on intercourse, then it's REALLY bad... unless you're a "fast-cummer" (I know, it's a horrible term...).
2007-01-14 23:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by km_berrios 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
:)...like the ladies said-3 mins? you're wrking part time. like the dude said, add some more hand action into ur bj regiment if ur jaw hurts. I'm sure ur BF won't mind, I hope he's working you out "GOOD" since ur going thru all this to get him his
2007-01-14 23:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are doing this as a "duty" your fooling yourself. You have to want to do it. As for how long, it depends on how good the giver is! Three minutes would seem WAY to fast which tells me he hasn't any experience or stamina or your just WAY good.
2007-01-14 22:58:51 · answer #4 · answered by Ole Charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 minutes is about right. Want to really turn him on, go for a 69.
2007-01-14 22:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by notadeadbeat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get tired, move away for a few moments, keep using your hand to pleasure him and talk dirty in between!
2007-01-14 22:58:18 · answer #6 · answered by midsojo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be much longer. 3 minutes seems real quick to me, You must be getting him too excited
2007-01-14 23:00:15 · answer #7 · answered by crackleboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 minutes.??? you''re getting off easy, trust me
2007-01-14 22:56:19 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should know you are the one who is giving him bjs.
2007-01-14 22:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by Pebbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, just like the first person said....you're getting off easy.
2007-01-14 22:57:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋