i have two sisters who i live with, recently they started dating, and now they are bringing over their boyfriends all the time, staying over late, laughing, watching tv until really late, it is making my life a living hell, i am in college full time, i need to go to bed early so i can wake up early, cant go to sleep, cant study, they are always around, i need my space !! anyway things have resorted to me moving out of the house to live near campus.
to make things further complicated, this "sisters bringing over their boyfriends ordeal" is bringing relationship issues with me and my very conservative muslim boyfriend. so now me and the sisters are not talking...i'm just waiting until i move the hell out and away from them. i have spoken to both of them about my issues with this matter numerous times, nothing seems to work, just an awful situation to be in, any suggestions?? anyone?
2007-01-14 14:42:11 · 8 answers · asked by DesiGirl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Ignore them until you move out. Tell your partner you cannot control your sisters behaviour- if he loves you he will understand it is not your problem and out of your control. How dare he get angry at YOU about it! Get earplugs to help you sleep. Relax and know you are moving soon and it will all be over. If your boyfriend hates you living there and your sisters are pure hell..why not move into your boyfriends place, or a friends/ family member? just until you can move out. If it is unbearable talk to a counsellor at your college and arrange emergency accomadation. Hang in there and best of luck!
2007-01-14 14:55:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it really seems like they can be evil. But you know that deep down you love them. What you can do is try and make a compromise with them. Ask them if you can make a deal. Say that I need my sleep and I need to study, and with you bringing your boyfriends home and laughing all night doesn't help me. How about you can bring your boyfriends home, but they have to be out of here by 9:00 or whatever time. Same goes for you and your boyfriend. Make sure he is out of there at whatever time to. As for needing some time for yourself, you can set up a Saturday where you study for a while, and then you can go take a hot bubble bath or a hot shower. Relax. Maybe consider trying to move your room somewhere else where you can't be disturbed. If you can't get any alone time at home, go to a local cafe or a friends house to study and relax.
Hope I Helped!!
2007-01-14 22:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by bookworm0-0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As regards the way they live their life, you can't possibly control it. You are already doing what you can do. To move away. Perhaps your sisters think that if your bf is conservative, then it is your prob and not theirs. Anyways, do you really think you can lead your whole life living with people that have such extreme values. Do think about that. Talk to your sisters and separate amicably and give only your studies as a reason for moving. Do not blame them for having fun, when you cannot have it but just state that since you can't concentrate well while they are enjoying, you chose to move.
2007-01-15 09:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by Smriti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your boyfriend is the evil one
How dare he use your sister's business as an excuse to start some drama!!!
Set some ground rules and boundries that you all, as sisters, can respect and stick to! (this should be strictly between you 3! no boyfriends involved!)
Change the way you view them and start hanging out more with them (er... girl time??) if your sisters both pased away tomorrow, how foolish would you feel???
Peace!
2007-01-14 22:48:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your sisters are taking advantage of the position you're in. A frank conversation has to take place, and they need to know that your space & time need to be respected.
Good luck.
2007-01-14 22:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by Happy Wife 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to move out and the sooner the better. Sorry to hear that your sisters are doing this to you. They aren't being very respectful of you. You need to move out so you don't fluck out of college and it would be better for all of you. I'd do that if I were in your situation. I have 2 brother and they aren't evil so not all siblings are evil as answer to your question.
2007-01-14 22:46:03 · answer #6 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know. My sister and I are each other's best friends.
2007-01-14 22:45:54 · answer #7 · answered by Jack 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Relax it will all work out.
Good Luck
2007-01-14 22:44:52 · answer #8 · answered by zen522 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋