i am Muslim, i love one Hindu girl but in my religion i can not get married with her . what can i do?

Question

i come from iran i am 17 i love one girl she is 26 we love each other. but in my religion i can not get married with her .
is there any law in this world that help us to do this.
what we can do?
we should be alone?
do you know the worst way to missing someone is that she sit in your side and you know you never have her.
why we can not?
whyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy?
if the religion want make us alone what i can do?
its true?
religion should help us not make us alone is it correct?
we spoke with each other. she love me but she say that we have many problm most of them : religion , country , age and finilly she is my teacher.
please help me to continue this way i am waiting you

Answer 1

Let me ask you this.

Do you love you GF or do you love your religion?
Do you prefer to leave your GF or leave your religion?
Do you want to leave your family for a girl?
Are you prepared of the consequences?

You can go to any non muslim country or a secular country in Europe or North America and get married. No one will question you and you and your GF/wife can live happily ever after.

Can you seriously live with it? Religion is a choice, a personal choice that can affect a person life. In a muslim country such as Iran, you cannot make that choice as easy as you would as in America or Britain.

So ask your self again, do you love your girl or your religion?
Take a time out and recollect your self. Think about it, you are only 17 for god sake, this sounds more like a crush that love. Are you seriously prepared for the marriage life. I seriously doubt it.

If you want to marry, be an adult first? Do you have what it takes to support your wife? Are you prepared to be disowned? Are you ready to handle the burden?

Like I said you are 17, you are still young. God has already made plans for us. Its up to you to choose. Choose wisely.

Answer 2

Listen brother,

Marriage is NOT so easy as you think. There are lot many parameters which you must satisfy.

If you marry a Hindu girl, what will you teach your children? Worshipping ONE GOD or IDOLS? It will definitely be incompatible.

To marry from any different religion is like riding a bike with a Truck tyre and a Cycle tyre. Will that bike work? Of course NOT.

But you can try to be compatible. Even in the sacred book of the Hindus, the Vedas, it is forbidden to do Idol worship. The Vedas call for worshipping ONE GOD. The Vedas are dead against giving any image to GOD. And they even contain prophecies of the coming of Prophet Muhammed (PBUH).

So if she accepts these, Does not Associate any partners with GOD and accepts Prophet Muhammed (PBUH) as the Last and FInal messenger, i dont think that could be a problem.

But your age is less. And these attractions are bound to happen at this age. Therefore think again.

Answer 3

Here's what you do. Both of you take a plane to Mexico City. Then get on a bus and travel north to the U.S. border. Then just wade across the Rio Grande river along with all the other illegal aliens. No one will bother you about your spouse's religion in the US. As you are finding out, organized religion is the bane of the world. And oh yeah, your're too young and you should wait a couple or three years before catching that plane.

Answer 4

Every person needs to establish boundaries in their life. A laser beam is the same as regular light except that it's focused. You need to focus on your role in life. Your job is to be a good Muslim. Focus on that and you will accomplish much in life. If you disperse your energy in many different directions you will get nowhere. If you were meant for each other, you would not have been born in different religions.

Answer 5

The first thing that jumped out at me is your young age. I think you are lovestruck, and as such, you are not able to think rationally about the matter.

How important is your religion to you? Do you truly believe in it? If so, then why would you want to be with someone who did not share this very important thing to you? If your religion is not all that important to you, then you should not let your religion determine who you can marry. If one of you is not willing to convert for the relationship, then it is probably not right. You are young and need to think very much about this. She is the older one and should be more mature and think about this more.

Answer 6

Honey your 17 and obvouisly you have never really had a real love. Bacha hase hanose. I understand that you are from Iran and you have madly fallen in love but at 17 its kind of impossible. Your parents are probably not going to like it either..I know how it is having persian parents considering mine our very strict. Anyway you will get over it just takes time.

Answer 7

Will your religious differences be an obstacle? This is one thing that can cause problems. Beside that factor, planning things like where would you both live should be considered. If you can agree on some of these basic things, don't let love slip away, it's a beautiful thing!

Answer 8

Sweetie, you're too young to be thinking about this. Wait until you are 20...if you are still in love with her, then you can think about this and ask about all of this again. But until then, you still have a bit of growing up to do.

Answer 9

She is way older than you .....dude......your's does not seem to be love but attraction.
So, wait for 2 more years, if you still feel love you can think of it.

Answer 10

move to America,Britain,Australia, Canada,Japan,Iceland,Russia,Africa Sweden,Norway,Mexico,Italy,
Spain.any of these places let you marry anyone you wish.most other countries you can marry who you want.