he is white and 6'7, and he is a bit chubby but he has the cutest freckles on his arms and shoulders, but hes bashful about taking off his shirt, and id so love to see his body. what should i do or tell him? he has said he never had surgery so hes not covering up scars or anything like that. any opinions out there.
2007-01-14 14:25:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think he's trying to hide anything, he's just self conscious. Kind of slowly evolve into taking the shirt off. Stick your hand up his shirt, rub his back or chest, left it to display a little bit of his chest, and then eventually take it off. Guys are actually really self conscious but they kind of realize it's not that bad eventually.
2007-01-14 14:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill and don't force the issue. When he's comfortable and less self conscious he won't be so bashful. He needs to know you care about him no matter what, and if he feels like you might compare his body to some ripped stud it would crush him. Just enjoy him regardless of whether or not you get to see his chest and shoulders (and love handles if he's got 'em).
2007-01-14 22:31:06 · answer #2 · answered by oldyogi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jsut Tell Him To Take His shirt Off When Your Around Himm And No On eElse!
2007-01-14 22:27:32 · answer #3 · answered by Loverrr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are he's self conscious about his size. Some people that tall are. Just keep things comfortable with him so he's at ease with you and you earn his trust. Eventually, you'll be able to get close enough that you can take his shirt off for him and he won't resist.
2007-01-14 22:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by Katasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are in a heavy moment while making out, slowly start lifting up his shirt, then stop for a sec to get it over his head. then proceed and feel around to see if he's well built
2007-01-14 22:29:19 · answer #5 · answered by Konrad 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him compliments to boost his self-esteem. He will eventually be comfortable to take it off.
2007-01-14 22:28:58 · answer #6 · answered by angie20k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take a knife and take it off urself but be sure to get another shirt (wink)
2007-01-14 22:29:05 · answer #7 · answered by tainted_soul6000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, some boys are shy about their own body. just ask him, but don't force him to
2007-01-14 22:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by curious little kitty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take off yours
2007-01-14 22:28:55 · answer #9 · answered by natestrong35 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just say to him "I'm sure you look sexy underneath those clothes...I'd love to see it you sexy thing you!"
2007-01-14 22:28:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋