2007-01-14 14:25:10 · 30 answers · asked by princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
never.
2007-01-14 14:37:14 · answer #1 · answered by thevillageidiotxxxxx 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Have a list of all the good and negative qualities you can think of to your bf. Are you sure he will not do it then come back and beg again? If you can't trust him or have doubts then most likely he will do it again. Trust your instinct. If he truly loves you he will never had done it in the first place. He can cry for all his worth and beg but that doesn't mean he is not capable of doing the same thing again. Unless he asked you to marry. You will get hurt more in the future and it's a good thing you found out this early. But if you take him back because you pity him then think twice....yourself worth this time. You deserve someone better. Good luck.
2007-01-14 22:36:29 · answer #2 · answered by Stresh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no way. once cheated... they will do it again. They know u will forgive them.... however, this is probably only prudent if you have told him before that you would not stand for this. If you have never told him how u would feel about it then mayeb u can give him another chance. I am a male (gay) and know men think with their *****.. take a reality check.. look at yourself honestly, and do u think he is the right person for you??? Most of the time it is lonlienss and the thought of being alone that drives u into a relationship... and dont...cos it hurts more I KNOW! Someone gave me advice this week.... never love a person that does not love u more than u love them! And clearly he doesnt love u cos he cheated on u...just like my last BF... leave and get over it...it is damn hard, but has to be done to protect ursel and ur feelings!
2007-01-14 22:31:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh no. There is no way when my boyfriend cheated on me I will never take him back cause there is a saying once a cheater always a cheater I don't even care if he beg me the main thing is that you got hurt and he even didn't care about your feelings. Think about it before you decide to go back with that person OK.
Good luck
2007-01-14 22:34:07 · answer #4 · answered by daughterpictures 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I once took a guy back after he cheated and it was the worst 5 months of my life...if you cant trust someone a relationship wont work, and hes begging for you to take him back cause that means he has sex on tap basically. my ex cryed and begged as well and it didnt work. its up to you to decide what u really want, take some time to think tho and if u feel you can trust him and want to try again then do that, but from my experience, once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-01-14 22:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't take him back. If he cheated once..he'll cheat again. You have to think about how it would be if you tried to work things out. You might wonder all the time if he's cheating on you when he's not with you. Do you really want to go through that? You have to have trust and loyalty in your relationship. Obviously he doesn't know anything about either one.
2007-01-14 22:35:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Begging you for what....to fall for his lies? Have more self worth than to go back to a guy who's already cheated on you. There are some decent men out there....find one. This one is a loser you don't need.
2007-01-14 22:29:40 · answer #7 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he's willing to stop cheating and be faithful to you 100% then I say yeah take him back because I believe in second chances but if he's going to keep cheating on you and not be faithful then don't take him back. You need to be sure he will stop if you plan on taking him back. Don't take him back until you know he'll stop cheating for good.
2007-01-14 22:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why would that be a reason to go back out with him? Guys beg all the time thats thier problem not yours. he cheated hes a dog let him lye.
2007-01-14 22:28:00 · answer #9 · answered by fine_ass_fatty21 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask yourself this, did he beg her when he cheated on you? will he beg you again the next time it happens? give it alot of time and space, he needs to grow up and learn to respect women. give yourself a dose of self-respect and realize you deserve better. relationships are hard enough without having to worry about fidelity. find a hobby, spend time with family and friends. volunteer your time to those in need and don't focus on your needs.
2007-01-14 22:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by rainbowmedicinewoman 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
From a mans stand point I would say no. Let him beg. Most men think if they can get by with it once, they can get by with it again and again.
2007-01-14 22:29:21 · answer #11 · answered by Dave 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋