Should I give and call her or be tough and not call her.?

Question

I caught my girlfriend in a big fat lie wich caused allot of problems.
I dont want to go into details but I think she been messing around but not sure.Anyway last tuesday we really got in to it and told her never to call me again.And I think I got her fired from her job.Well Unfortunately this isn't as easy as I thought it was going to be I'm a little more attatched than I thought.But don't want to call her a make a fool of my self and she hasn't called me ,but then I told her not to.And yes the job thing.But I must care about her all ive been able to think about is her.advice please.

Answer 1

call her right away before you both lose each other. i lie a lot to my bf but we never take it so far, just take it easy.

Answer 2

First off there is no doubt that if you ask 25 people what cheating or (messing around) is you will have at least 15 if not more different answers. So the first thing is, did you ever have that talk and the second is...if you want the relationship you need to drawl the lie that you will not allow to be crossed. Now on to cheating...that is a deal breaker w/ me and I will not play any games about the subject. My opinion is, if she didn't realize how good you were to her before and she choose to step out. She will never realize and you might as well cut your losses now!

Answer 3

If you think you can forgive her, then call. If you think you need to get answers from her then call. But if you decide to call... don't start in with an "attitude", even though you likely have reason to be pretty upset. If you decide to call, just call and ask her if she would like to talk, that you feel the need to talk the whole thing out. If there's a chance to find out the truth and work things out, that's probably about the only way to get a start at it. You might want to give her another day or so to see if she's going to call you first. This will give you enough time to put all your thoughts together and decide how to move ahead.

Answer 4

well, pride is the problem for the 2 of you.If you care or love someone, be prepared to be hurt, to cry, to sometimes feel that your heart is being ripped out.She made a mistake, give her a chance, you were both hurt by the situation and the best thing to do is to talk it out and let her know how you feel.... your anger.. everything. Open up and let her know what is eating your heart.There's no perfect person in this world.All are bound for mistakes and it is up to us to stand after we fall.So, call her, let her know that somehow you still care :)

Answer 5

I have a friend going through somewhat of a similiar situation. Don't be an *** - just call her. You never realize what you had until you lose it. TELL HER that! You may have to grovel a little, but if you truly love her than you should be ok with that.

Answer 6

I think you should call her and ask her if she was really messing around or not. Then decide from there if you really want to be with her or not. Good luck! =)

Answer 7

Okay, I am not going to be bothered to read all that drama but hell if you look that fine..e mail [e-mail]. If not well..nvm. I am slightly shallow! But to my credit they say attraction is the first step..so no attraction..nothing!

Answer 8

if u know shes been cheating .. suck it up boy .. u don't want to be that guy. . couple good drunks and a little strange will fix right up.
('_') ('_-).

Answer 9

be strong. You control the situation.

Answer 10

JUST CALL HER!!! oh and d amn your hott!