My sis is a b With A Itch?

Question

My sis is such a b****
She doesn't like my other sisters Fiance, She always makes comments about him.
I think that she has got it in her head that because she doesn't like him no one should!!
She is a teacher so she does have an eduaction and I don't but I do have a good job, I just knew the right people. she just thinks she knows everything because she is a teacher!!!
How do I tell her that she is not right just because she has some education?

Answer 1

I don't think her reasons for not liking the fiance are related to her career choice. it sounds to me like you either have never heard the real reasons why, or you don not agree with those reasons. Fighting over your education and career choices really has nothing to do with the fiance. You need to really listen to the reasons why she doesn't like him. Are those reasons based on valid loving concern for your sister's welfare and happiness? If not, then you have a valid reason to combat her opinion, but your education levels are so far beyond the point, neither one of you is listening to the other anymore. Stop being angry, be a good listener and ask her to tell you again why she doesn't like him. Listen this time, and then decide whether or not you have something to argue about. If you do, you need to use the same rational reasoning to approach your arguement, don't allow yourself to get tangled up so badly you are no longer even fighting about the same subject anymore, if the subject slides in the heat of the arguement, tell her you are no longer fighting about him and you don't wish to fight, you wish to discuss. If that doesn't work, it's time to end the conversation until you both are calm

Answer 2

Let your sisters fight their own battles. Everyone has a right to their own opinion - some vocalize it and some don't.
Don't knock your teacher sister - she has an extremely difficult job trying to teach kids who come from broken homes, kids with no respect for anyone, gang kids and distructive/abusive kids. You may have a good job but do you have the obstacles that she has.....
Perhaps if you gained some 'higher education' you would be able to understand her more.

Answer 3

I can relate to that question? My sister is the same way and the only thing I can tell you is that you just have to sit with her and just talk to her with out calling each other names. You need to have respect toward each other. Don't let this tare you both apart because this will lead you not talking to each other and not seeing each other. You will find yourself all alone and you don't want that family is very important remember that ok.

Answer 4

just tell her that if she likes him or not all she's doing is alienating ur sister fiance and that if she cant say nothing nice about some one even if she's right she shouldn't say anything at all , we r all created different and no one is perfect even if they r teachers , that doesn't make them god sent ....

Answer 5

my sister is worse.

she just landed me 2 months of grounding and no attending my best friends sweet sixteen, where my crush will be whom i really like.

plus my sis has no compassion for others! AT ALL!!!! she's like black-hearted.

i feel your pain.

do what i do. play pranks on her that you cant get caught for.

as for her anything-but-modest mouth, say "whatever" to anything she says.

she may stop, she may keep her cruel personality.

i feel for ya. hold on.

:-)

Answer 6

You could say:
"Not all teachers are smart.Some i know like to repeatedly GET ON PEOPLE'S NERVES."

That's the only one i could think of..I hope i was able to help.

Answer 7

thats easy just be blunt w/ her if that dont work try being suttle if those dont work put it in a book w/ a picture beside it

Answer 8

tell her to her face that she is a b with a itch she will understand i hate when ppl become snoopy myself