Is it appropriate for a woman to be calling a man, if interested?

Question

Is interested in him, would like to make a connection, why does he not call?

Answer 1

There is not anything wrong with it. However, sometimes men like to do the chasing, some like to be chased. Call him...

Answer 2

definitely appropriate. I did the calling the first few times although a few yrs ago I wouldn;t have done that. I decided to throw caution into the air and now he is my husband!

I guess some guys need a lot of encouragement coz they are afraid of rejection. Why not take the first move and if everything turns out to be ok, that would be great. If he is not really that interested, at least you would not be left wondering about this relationship.

Answer 3

Personally I think that a woman calling a man it is very inappropriate. (you give the impression of being desperate)
He should make the move and if you like him go on. If he has not contacted you, probably he is not interested on you or he is already on a relationship or maybe on a long-term relationship.

Answer 4

It's Ok if u call 2 or 3 times!! but after that i think u should let him call u, It's a turn off for some men, if a woman call him to much!!

Answer 5

If he doesn't call, and he has your # and is supposedly interested... I wouldn't call him. But that's just me. He has a phone, and he's the man. If he can't be man enough to make a call to someone he's (supposedly) interested in, you'll be better off forgetting about him.

Answer 6

Nope! Nothing wrong with that at all I think you more of a woman that really knows what she wants so, go after it. Guys love woman that make the first move. Because Honestly we are not always the smart ones when it comes down to knowing what is a flirt and what isn't! If you are trying to really make a connection with him and if he says yes. Try following my 5 biblical principles for finding that true guy that will love you for who you are inside first than out! Ask Yourself does he?:
1. Does he love you for who you are (inside first than out)? The Bible says: *“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-6
2. Does he honor you? Will he do things just to make you happy? Will he try some of the things you are interested in or maybe shares some of the same interests and hobbies? The Bible says:
* “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.” Romans 12:10
3. Cherishes your body, mind and soul? Doesn't go to far on these things until your ready? The Bible says: * “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet Spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” 1 Peter 3:3-4
4. You trust him to the fullest? He is your best friend and you are his? The Bible Says: * “ Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13:7
5. You communicate well? He understands you like he could be your twin? The Bible says: * “ Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29

To Sum it up: Stick to 1. Love 2. Honor 3. Cherish 4. Trust 5. Communication and I promise if your relationship is based on these things you will know what its like to find true love! And Yes! I have used my principles myself and I am convinced I have found my soul mate! But to find her I also used these same principles to weed out my soul mate from the relationships that just didn't work. In addition, letting God and Jesus Christ lead your heart, mind, body and soul also aid in the weeding process.God Bless!

Answer 7

Go ahead and give the man a call, keep it casual, do not get into anything too deep on the phone or make it too long a conversation, find a casual subject (Weather, David Beckham arrival to the U.S.) and try to get him to go out with you, as in, move it to the next level. If he is truly interested he will take you up on the offer to go out.

Answer 8

I'm wondering if he is married...just a wonder? If you call and a lady answers...that would be a good reason....seriously now days women call men I see no reason why you can't. If he reacts in the negative then I'd not keep pursuing him. Forget it and move on. Sometimes things happen for an unknown reason...so don't let this get to you. Good luck now and in the future. Mama Jazzy Geri

Answer 9

There's no reason for a woman not to call a man. This isn't the Middle Ages.

Answer 10

I would say if he is interested in you and has your number then he will call, but if he doesnt call, then i would say you could either call him or move on.