Im 15 and my best friend recently broke up with her boyfriend. Hes really hott and funny, but ive never had a boyfriend before and im afraid he wont like me the same. Hes also from another school, so i really dont kno him well, ive been asked out by tons of the guys at my school and i always turn them down b/c im soo picky. Seriously...lol..im like afraid of commitment..but it would be so nice..i just dont kno..HELP!!
2007-01-14 14:06:48 · 8 answers · asked by natalie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i've always found out that dating ur friends ex never works out cuz it ends up messin up the relationship with ur friend and the guy so i just say FLIRT lol
2007-01-14 14:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by cookiemonster31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you crazy? First of all, at 15 you can be exclusive, but you are a little young to even use the word 'commitment'. Secondly, I don't believe you should ever go for a friend's ex....unless it has been years and even than, I would find it very strange personally...but I know people who don't. At the moment...even if you ask your friend if it is okay, it can jeopardize your friendship. Are you her best friend or not? I don't want to be critical, but I think you aren't thinking straight. I don't care if he looks like a movie star...it is just a 'no no'. Good luck...
2007-01-14 22:18:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. If you truly have feelings for this guy, that can't be helped and in that case you should have talk with your friend. But in your case it sounds like you only like him because he's "hot and funny" and there are no true feelings. If she is your best friend you shouldn't be doing things behind her back and she should be the first one you talk to if you have feelings for this guy. Your friend probably still has lingering feelings for her ex and you should keep that in consideration. If you tell the guy you like him behind your friend's back, that will probably end your friendship with your best friend. Girls usually tend to think exes are off limits so you should really sit your friend down and have a serious talk with her if you plan on doing anything.
2007-01-14 22:16:55 · answer #3 · answered by [J] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly sweetie, you're the type of friend I would stay away from.....I think it's ridiculous for you to honestly ask something like and then call this girl your friend. If you like him...control yourself. If you date him it will ruin the friendship, is it worth losing your friend over some guy who doesn't even know you exist? There are millions of guys out there don't make the mistake of choosing a bad one.Good luck babe.
2007-01-14 22:14:39 · answer #4 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well Natalie i dono if u should tell him juss yet because if u do ur best friend would feel rele bad trust me ive been in a situation like this and the best thing to do is juss let it go for a while then when things cool down then try talking to him
2007-01-14 22:12:38 · answer #5 · answered by kristi c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, my rule of thumb is don't mess around with your girlfriends ex. You will probably lose your friend. They may get back together--you never know. But she prob don't want her girlfriend dating her ex. I wouldn't want my girlfriend dating and ex of mine. Well, maybe unless it was many many years ago. But I'm prob alot older than you. I don't know! I have found out that when my girlfriends ask my advice they usually end up doing what they want to do anyway.
2007-01-14 22:13:55 · answer #6 · answered by texasblueslady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!!!
Please, I know this might sound rude but I swear- for one, it's REALLY rude to your friend, and for another- dating your BEST FRIEND'S EX- is like, against the code.... IF you want to put your friendship at risk, go ahead, but... no guy is worth ruining a friendship over. Friends are FOREVER- boys are WHATEVER.
2007-01-14 22:11:10 · answer #7 · answered by christin@ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would think it would be ok just make sure you tell your freind first because if you don't she will be hurt. And don't worry about commitment if it doesn't turn out well you have plenty of time.
2007-01-14 22:11:51 · answer #8 · answered by random gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋