My bf and I had a fight because he hangs with the ex. When he hang with them, I decided to hang with my own ex... is that ok or not???
I did such cause I dunno what's with an ex that one can't give her up so easily. My ex contact me, we hung up and stuff. Is this okay?!?!
2007-01-14 13:59:56 · 14 answers · asked by ♬müsic-to-yoür-ears♬ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is just too complicated and it just hurts your relationship! Its a recipe for disater!
2007-01-14 14:05:11 · answer #1 · answered by AmyLue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want you to really think about this. If a person breaks up with their boyfriend or girlfriend, it is for a definite reason. So, why still want to be with a person that they once decided they DIDN'T want to be with? It is a little bit backwards, don't you agree?
My guess is that neither of you are very serious about each other if you are both "hanging" with your exes... I know you did it because your boyfriend did it... but you didn't have to go there.
Take a good look at your relationship with your boyfriend, and take some time to think about what is best for you at this time.
2007-01-14 22:29:41 · answer #2 · answered by km_berrios 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u 2 can hang out without any sexual tension or wanting 2 cheat on ur current bf then i dont see a problem
2007-01-14 22:04:27 · answer #3 · answered by ck26062 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is provoking and I doubt if this will stop ure bf from hanging out with his ex. You guys should work out something or just break away.
2007-01-14 22:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by th1608 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex and I are good friends. We don't hang because she is an hour away. but we talk a lot and see each other at family get togethers.
2007-01-14 22:06:04 · answer #5 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uh no....it's hypocritical to tell someone that you don't like something and then turning around and doing it yourself. If he knows that hanging with his ex is hurting you or putting a strain on your relationship and he still continues to see her than babe he is not the right guy for you..good luck sweetie.
2007-01-14 22:05:40 · answer #6 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to hang out with your ex so long as nothing happens between you two that you might regret.
2007-01-14 22:04:29 · answer #7 · answered by Ky_bello 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off u and ur current bfriend need to decide what is best 4 ur relation ship becuz u may b thijnkn that ur gettn even when u might be makin the situation worse!
2007-01-14 22:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by cookiemonster31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm married and my ex is actually a family friend now, he comes over when hubby is and isnt home, we're ok with it.
2007-01-14 22:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's okay! As long as you do nothing you won't regret later. You and your ex can still be friends.
2007-01-15 11:54:11 · answer #10 · answered by .:Feliciano:. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋