someone please help me..I don't kno what to do...I mean I want to have sex...but I am young and scared....what do I need to kno before I go ahead and do it...
2007-01-14 13:59:11 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'am 16years old
2007-01-14 14:07:13 · update #1
what all should I kno...like before and after details
2007-01-14 14:11:56 · update #2
how does your first time feel
2007-01-14 14:23:35 · update #3
what does it feel like..please use good details
2007-01-14 14:24:13 · update #4
what does it feel like..please use good details
2007-01-14 14:24:14 · update #5
You need to know that until you're in a committed relationship, until you're not too young and, until you're not too scared, you shouldn't have sex. When sex is right for you, you won't be scared. Until then, it's okay to wait a while longer.
2007-01-14 14:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by NYGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont!!!! There is no reason to go off and have sex.. Wait until you are with someone so special that you are not scared. You want it to be special..... think about later on in life... when you have a daughter and she asks about your first time. you really want to have a good story. You want it to involve love and tenderness. You should go to your Dr and have them give you a run down... you should be on birth control and you also should make sure he is wearing a condom. learn about this before hand and know the proper way to use them so YOU know that his is doing it right. Don't rush into anything. Just understand that no method of birth control is 100% so Don't have sex until you are ready for the reality that is motherhood. EVERY TIME YOU HAVE SEX YOU RUN THE RISK IS GETTING PREGNANT.
You can do lots of fun stuff that will not result in you getting STD or having a baby. IF he loves you he will not make you feel bad about not having sex. IF he is pushing you..... he is not the one to give your body to.
2007-01-14 22:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by the queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're scared or nervous AT ALL you shouldn't be having sex yet. I didn't have sex until I was absolutely positive I wasn't nervous about it. When you ARE ready, make sure it's with a guy that you know cares about you and knows this is your first time, that way he'll be gentle with you. Use a lubricated condum, it makes the first few times easier. And follow his lead, once you're doing it, there's really not much for you to do, he'll be doing all the work. But seriously, DON'T have sex if you have any second thoughts AT ALL, or I promise you'll REALLY regret it. And ALWAYS be safe, good luck :)
2007-01-14 22:11:06 · answer #3 · answered by Carolinii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all... Find the person that you absolutely LOVE with all of your heart. In my opinion its not worth having it if you don't love the person. Then just be safe. If you do not know what safe is then here are examples.
Talk about it before you go through with it.
Make him wear a condom.
I would actually suggest going to websites and reading up on it.
Yea anyway I know I am not a girl, but I do hope this helps.
2007-01-14 22:06:03 · answer #4 · answered by SpaZz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
before u do it talk to the guy. does he know that this is going to be your first time. if not tell him everything that u are afraid about, also make sure that he uses a condom and if he doesn't want to then he is not the one u should have sex with. Just remember this it is easier to change a condom then it is to change diapers
2007-01-14 22:15:51 · answer #5 · answered by cantceeme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait
2007-01-14 22:03:07 · answer #6 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well how young are you?If youre still a teenager i would say WAIT!!!.Once you start then you dont stop and unwanted things happen pregnancy,std's,obsessions etc....I would tell everyone in the world to wait till theyre married.
2007-01-14 22:04:09 · answer #7 · answered by Tiffany C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are young and scared then dont do it hun.
if you know its wrong and you feel the need to
search the topic then dont do it. If you decide to,
make sure you have all the necessities,
condoms, resaerch. Make sure you look up
all the things you dont know.
hope all if well
2007-01-14 22:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know that you are young..right?enjoy your life being young don't explore other things at that age..wait for your time..
well if you are eager to continue..goodluck..you can never go back from what you may do..it might harm,hurt and deliver you to a lot of problems..it is hard to have regrets..i tell you!
2007-01-14 22:06:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are still scared wait until its something you really want to do. If you do it while you are still scared it won't be a good experience for you or your guy.
2007-01-14 22:05:13 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋