Men if your girlfriend asked you constantly whether or not you cheated and you did would you tell her?
Seriously I know a lot of men cheat but are there any guys that wouldnt? i have suspected my boyfriend of cheating but he will not admit to anything at all and i have tried everything. Obviously there is a chance he never has, but he is a nice guy but has done suspicious things to make me think twice.
does the guilt kill you if you truly love the girl you are with? wouldnt u come clean and stop living a lie? or is it possible he really wasnt cheating at all despite suspicion
2007-01-14 13:53:00 · 9 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wouldn't tell if i did. i've cheated before on my ex's-but i didn't love them. they never knew. however, now that i'm married i'd never cheat. i'm past that stage in my life.
and when i mean cheat i mean like kissed a girl or hung out with her but not sex.
2007-01-14 13:58:00 · answer #1 · answered by LS 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same suspicioun sometimes also.
but i finally came to realize that if he wanted another girl that he wouldnt stay with me. If there was a better girl that he wouldnt deal with my BS. I know he only loves me and no one else. And you should know that too. Nothing wrong with those gut instincts but that could scare the guy away. Of course guys do things to make you think that they are cheating when they actually arent. When all they do is think about how much they love and care about you only you. If you dont know that then you shouldnt be in a relationship. Or maybe you have trust issues its really something that needs to be taken up with you are your other half. Sit down and talk to them, make them tell you that they only love you. Its a discussion that needs to take place to stop the suspicion.
good luck!!
2007-01-14 22:02:06 · answer #2 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth is a hard thing to believe in a relationship especially with a guy talk to ladies what im saying a girl never trust a guy so if you dont trust yo bf you dont love him trust is the cousin of love hes probably like me he loves you but talk to other women because thats how he was brought up its in his dna or and you probably dont want to exept the truth that he is not cheating i tell you what kissing a different girl is not cheating its sometimes a once in a life time time thing what i am saying is a girl that like him a lot and she knows that yall are going out gives him a kiss so she could get it over with knowing that she you made the first move in swept off his feet first in she doesnt have a chance try watching the notebook this is a good movie youll understand
but in my eyes not all boys cheat you females just dont want to believe us
once again TRUST is love the importance of a relationship
2007-01-14 22:05:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If what you are feeling is truly just a "suspicion" then maybe you should back off a bit. Maybe you are just being paranoid, some people are like that. But if you have caught him doing things that warrant the suspicion, maybe it's time to end the relationship. Relationships without trust suck!! hope everything works out for you.
2007-01-14 21:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by Reney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you are a bit insecure when you keep asking over and over and over. He is not going to admit to anything of he did it, much less if he didnt do it. You have 2 choices.....believe him or dont. But stop with the questions unless you are ready to face the answer. If it is something you cant get over then i suggest you do some soul searching because trust is everything and doubt lingering over your head in a relationship?? Big NO-NO.
2007-01-14 22:00:35 · answer #5 · answered by nyenelra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men will lie to the end. Make sure to have safe sex with a condom until you are absolutely positive he isn't cheating.
2007-01-14 21:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by WDS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he loved you he would never cheat i would never cheat on a girl and if he did kick his A$$ to the curb there's lot of fish in the sea
2007-01-14 21:59:31 · answer #7 · answered by chunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he is cheating . . he probably is. He will not admit it.
2007-01-14 22:00:56 · answer #8 · answered by CapeCodGram 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've cheated. I didn't tell. I don't feel guilty.
2007-01-14 21:57:05 · answer #9 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋